tips on anal sex~plzzzz

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Registered: 07-10-2004
tips on anal sex~plzzzz
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Sat, 07-10-2004 - 8:07pm
hello all........I have enjoyed anal sex with my boyfriend a few times, but I need some tips with this subject... hes rather big .. and lately it has been really difficult for him to enter me , we use lube, and I have really really enjoyed this act several times, but we arent really very experinced at it at all, we both enjoy it once we can get me relaxed enough to get inside me, but the last few times we tried we had to give it up because I couldnt get lose enough or relaxed enough...............any suggestions welcome. thanks...............girl X

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Sat, 07-10-2004 - 8:31pm
My suggestion?:

Don't do it! Especially if he is big. You can wreck your anal area. And possibly have to wear diapers.

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Sat, 07-10-2004 - 9:49pm
I love it as well, and also have a well endowed partner. How are you getting yourself relaxed? I am usually manually stimulating my clitoris, and sometimes(if the position allows) dh will slip a couple fingers into my vagina and rub my G spot. Starting out in the spooning position is best, and once you get into it you can move to any you find comfortable. What I also found works for me, is to have him do it in gradual steps. Moving just the tip in and out, then a little more, then a little more. It feels teasingly good and is a great way to relax into it.

Leticia

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Sat, 07-10-2004 - 9:50pm
>>Don't do it! Especially if he is big. You can wreck your anal area. And possibly have to wear diapers.<<

Where have you been getting all the bad info you have been posting lately?

Leticia

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Registered: 12-23-2003
Sun, 07-11-2004 - 5:10pm
It is quite difficult performing that act when the guy is extremely large. I had problems with that with my ex it happened maybe once but that was it and it was extremely painful for the next couple of days. However, my current boyfriend we do it all of the time. I just have to have soothing music and aside from that it has to be silence so I can concentrate on relaxing until he gets where he needs to go, after that it is easy sailing

Destiny

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 10:46am
HA, HA, I was going to ask for a board JUST on Anal sex so people could see the drawbacks. Call it "Anal World". Then, I found there was already ANAL WORLD!

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&ie=UTF-8&q=anal+world&btnG=Google+Search

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 1:13pm
There were no drawbacks shown, just SPAM in that group.

Leticia

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 1:49pm
I beg to differ. Many of the 10000 sites regarding ANAL SEX describe it in detail, how to do it, and the drawbacks. I know you may dislike me, because I don't like ANAL and you do, and that is OK, but providing this search for ANAL is a good contribution to this board. Many of the sites are informative.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 5:10pm
I don't dislike you, I don't even know you. There are precautions to take, I agree, but saying someone will end up in diapers is untrue. You were talking about Anal World, I looked at the site, did you? It was nothing but ads for adult sites. All you linked to was a google search, but no sites with info about people ending up in adult diapers for practicing anal sex. Any sexual activity can cause damage if done incorrectly or too roughly. You overexaggeration seemed very bizarre. I realize it's not for everyone. I was just trying to clear up your misconception so there was no confusion for others.

Leticia

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 7:09pm
Well OK, then! I just stumbled upon a whole search that would help answer any questions. Even my own!
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 7:29pm
Do you think you may have anal sex and anal fisting confused? Now if you said fisting would cause you to need diapers I wouldn't think your statement so bizarre. What links are you talking about? I am always ineterested in learning more.

Leticia

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