Tips on deepthroating

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Registered: 01-25-2006
Tips on deepthroating
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Sun, 03-05-2006 - 2:18pm

I am interested in doing deepthroat on my boyfriend, but its something I have never tried before. I have been watching videos that depict women deepthroating to see what I can learn about the technique, however I don’t think without actually giving it a try I am any closer to really understanding how it is done.

Can all women deepthroat? Is there any way I can prepare myself to deepthroat? Anyway I can make it easier?

I really want to learn how to deepthroat, but I am afraid that I will try for the very first time on my boyfriend and will feel like gagging because his penis is so far down my throat, I mean I feel like gagging if I am brushing my teeth and my toothbrush goes too far to the back of my mouth. I don’t want him to think that its because I am repulsed or don’t want to do it, because I do, but I don’t know what to expect.

Any advice?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 6:44pm

I posted to you over on the Oral Sex Board.



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Registered: 07-26-2005
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 12:23am

Of course all women can't do it. If they could, it wouldn't be such a "novelty"! The main thing is to put your mouth and throat in alignment, so it's a "straight shot", just like a sword swallower.

Everyone has a gag reflex, and you might gag. So what? If he doesn't understand what a gag reflex is, then suggest shoving a cucumber down his throat! It happens, sometimes without even trying to deep throat. If you were "repulsed" by it, you wouldn't be trying it.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 12:55am

No, all women cannot deepthroat, nor want to.

Some learn to do it and some don't. I can manage it for a couple of strokes but that's all I care to do since it's very uncomfortable for me and my DH doesn't want the experience to be unpleasant for me. He has never asked me to do it either.

IF you want to try, then try but don't feel that you must do this for fellatio to be pleasurable for your partner because it isn't necessary. IF you have sensitive gag reflex, it's not likely that you'll be able to overcome that but only experimenting will tell.

And remember, porn is FANTASY. Things may appear to be real but editing, etc. can do a lot to enhance what really goes on.




Edited 3/6/2006 11:21 pm ET by katmandoo2001