Tips on giving beau handjobs but no oral

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Registered: 06-29-2003
Tips on giving beau handjobs but no oral
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Sun, 09-19-2004 - 6:32pm
hi,

this might be a repeat from someone else but i need suggestions, ideas and alternatives to oral sex since we haven't started having intercourse. he's going in next week to see his doctor to get tested for high blood, erectile, aids test, etc. the other night he wanted me to lick his penis but i just couldn't, so i did handjobs on him. i thought i was going to yank his penis off since he wanted it hard.

also if someone can point me to any other websites or articles. thanks.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 09-19-2004 - 8:48pm
The best thing to do is ask him how he likes it.

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Registered: 09-08-2004
Mon, 09-20-2004 - 2:49pm
Agreed. There is, with most guys, a very, very specific way they want it held. If you feel normal asking, have him masturbate for you and show you. E.g., my bf masturbates with both hands, but what's unusual is that one of his thumbs is in line with his penis and pushes down firmly on the head and peehole, and his forefingers are underneath it and perpendicular to it, pushing up firmly on the flap of skin in back of the head. Then a couple of seconds before he shoots he will move the thumb outta the way. I've never seen another guy do it that way -- he may have an usually sensitive peehole or whatever -- but if I gave him a handjob without doing it pretty similarly, I don't think he would have an orgasm.
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Mon, 09-20-2004 - 4:28pm
I think ,with most men, the pace is the most important aspect of a hand job. There are several different ways it can be held to get the desired results. One of my favorites is when she uses lots of lube(heating ky is awesome). She pulls the skin tight and holds it at the bottom, and uses a circular motion with the other hand as it goes up and down.Her hand even goes over the head too. Another way is to use both hands, clasp fingers in a praying fashion, and go up and down and use some circular motion to that as well.