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| Sun, 04-01-2007 - 11:15pm |
What is the technique of having sex in the doggy-style position and the woman on top position? I've tried WOT and it doesn't seem to be doing anything for me, even though I've heard this position can be great for the woman. We've tried DS as well and I just don't know what to do. I can hardly feel anything, but he seems to get off really quickly in this position.
Maybe I'm boring, but I just prefer the missionary position!
Thanks!

WOT takes practice, and once you figure it out, it will be great for you. You're not trying to be the man, you're not trying to "thrust".....it's all about you and what feels good to you, which is clitoral and "g" spot stimulation. Straddle him on your knees, not your heels.....you're kneeling, not squatting. Then when you lower yourself onto him, you start moving your pelvis, NOT up and down and in and out, but in a slow sensual circular motion, grinding into him. You can vary that with a pelvic thrust now and then.
As for DS, you don't really have to do anything, but since most women don't get that much out of intercourse alone, it's a perfect position for either of you to stimulate your clitoris, which will make you enjoy it as much as he does. Again, practice makes perfect.
Good Morning and welcome to the board. I'm the new CL, Misty, and I hope you stick around.
Both of the positions that you are mentioning are great for deep penetration.
In WOT, I find that it is good to lean forward, rest your hands on either side of his upper body or on his chest, and move your pelvic area front to back (in a slow thrust movement). This will stimulate your clitoris while allowing you to feel him inside of you, especially on the front wall of your vagina -- which is where the g-spot is. Also, while sitting straight up on him you will feel deep penetration, and it is a good position to feel different sensations as you move your pelvic area in a circular motion. Try different motions and angles with your body, and you will be in control of where the pleasure goes. Also, you can face his feet (reverse cowgirl) for a new twist on the WOT position.
Doggy Style is by far my favorite position! With deep thrust, I get a very full feeling, and with more shallow thrust, I get a lot of g-spot action. Also, either of you can stimulate your clitoris in this position, or add a vibrator into play (both of you will feel the sensation while using it on your clitoris). While you don't have to move at all, he can be still while you do if you prefer, or both of you can get into a rhythm where you are moving together. You can also be on the bed and he can be standing on the floor (if the height suits the two of you). Try positioning your body in different angles -- shoulders on the bed, one leg on knee & other on foot, and try your legs at varying widths apart. With each change, you will feel different sensations.
Both positions provide great visuals for him, and can be very exciting for you if you have a mirror handy to watch.