Too disgusted to touch him!
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| Wed, 11-17-2004 - 4:02pm |
To start off, I'm 18, a senior in H.S. and my man is 19. We've been together for over 2 years. He started off our relationship being really sweet, but once we started having sex, he got a real cocky attitude.
This morning, a reliable friend of mine told me she was talking to my boyfriend and his best friend about relationships. His friend was talking about how girls are no good and he'd have no problem with depending on his right hand for the rest of his life (nice, but it gets better). My friend didn't understand, so my boyfriend decided to spell it out for her. He said "Girlfriends aren't good for anything except getting naked and sucking d*ck".
Now, he may have been joking, and he may have been translating what his friend was trying to say, but I am completely disgusted that that sentence came out of my boyfriend's mouth. I feel like I never want him to touch me, and I'm disgusted with him and myself, for giving into his sexual needs.
I know he and I are young and immature, but I need some advice on what to do. I haven't had the chance to talk to him yet, but I'm so angry, I'm almost afraid to.
Edited 11/17/2004 4:05 pm ET ET by x1moreaddiction

erin
Your b/f might have just been translating what his friend meant and I wouldn't jump to conclusions without talking to him first.
I think that there is more to this than one smart, cocky, immature comment while joking around with friends.
How do you feel about your relationship with him overall? You have managed to give the distinct impression that you think that he is too cocky and a pain in the arse. If everything else in the relationship was fine then I would say that you are over-reacting to a young man's cocky comment when he was 'with the boys' and showing off. However, you are pretty upset about this and unhappy with other things too.
Perhaps you should re-evaluate this relationship completely? It sounds like you beginning to drift away from him because you don't like how he treats you or acts in the relationship over-all.
I would say this guy is selfish and immature