Too many partners?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-22-2004
Too many partners?
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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 10:41am
Howdy. I'm so mad. Last night my bf of almost 2 mos. broke up with me. We were discussing exclusivity and he asked me how many people I had sex with. I told him 19. He said it won't work, and left. He's only been with 2 partners. How can he be jealous, that was my past.

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Registered: 02-23-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 1:40pm

And btw. I got it long time ago that you wouldn't date someone who had casual sex. I guess you just have all these rules and standards. That I was trying to figure it out. Cuz they don't make any sense and no I don't want you to make sense of them. I am accepting them, but well, tha'ts just you and that's fine.


I do get the threesome and there for extra pleasure. And yet, you stated you and your SO talked about when she started developing feelings for the OM, so I guess it's not just purely physical...unless of course I misread it.


I do apologize if I've irritated you. I didn't mean to. I just think you have a lot of high standards that don't make sense, and well, since you have a woman who "works for you", it doesn't really matter if I get it or not. (i'm learning the hard way to STOP doing this). sorry about that. DIdnt mean to take it out on you. I'm just like that. and that is why everyone says I'd make a great lawyer.....because I can find all the discrepencies that dont' make any sense or ppl who say one thing than the opposite.


Oh, as for being a hypocrite about having sex w/no feelings, then having sex w/feelings. I never once stated that I FEEL I should have sex for one or the other. If I did, then yes, I would in fact be a hypocrite. You on the other hand did state that you do not have sex w/o emotions, when in fact you do. I just stated I can do both, and I'm comfortable with that. So, not a hypocrite. That's like eating chocolate and vanilla. I can do both and not be a

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Registered: 02-23-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 1:43pm
oops. i'll email you then. might as well take this off the board.
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Registered: 04-08-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 2:00pm
LOL. You are killin me tigger. LOL This is great. I hope to carry on long and prosperous for both of us conversations via e-mail. Sorry folks, because these may get more personal then I want to share with everyone else. LOL Just kidding. Jeez, everyone is so serious around here. LOL
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Registered: 02-23-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 2:08pm

Failed twice due to the mailbox being too full. I'll go change my profile to accept, because unfortunately, I'm in "stealth" mode because well, come on. Like I need other iVillager's knowing my sex life sucks at times. lol.


-T

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 2:19pm
Well, I will not have internet access till Tuesday, so have a great weekend, and Memorial day. See you then. Chow for now!!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 2:26pm
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