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Too many partners?
| Sat, 05-22-2004 - 10:41am |
Howdy. I'm so mad. Last night my bf of almost 2 mos. broke up with me. We were discussing exclusivity and he asked me how many people I had sex with. I told him 19. He said it won't work, and left. He's only been with 2 partners. How can he be jealous, that was my past.

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Personally, I don't think I could be with, comfortably, a man who had a very extensive sexual history though. I think it does raise issues that might not be questioned if your pasts were more similar. But you married your wife and and my DH, who was a virgin, married me. I had been intimate with a previous fiance' and that bothered him even though he knew it shouldn't. Of course, he got over it.
But as Sugar mentioned....it's just not realistic to expect a partner to be a virgin or have very few partners after a certain age.
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The men I chose to date, and stay with - are very often even more sarcastic than I am. One of the qualities I prefer in a man, perhaps even require, in order that I not be misunderstood while being sarcastic myself. Plus, I consider it a sign of intelligence and a twisted personality - also both very important to me. :)
Everyone wants something different!
and by the way... I wouldn't be lying. I have had between 1 and 1000 lovers, and I'd tell him up front, I'm STD free, the number doesn't matter - and I don't care to ever know his number either. I chose to be judged by what and who I am now and today, and not because of sex acts I participated in, or didn't participate in in the past.
thats all :)
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