Too much clitoral stimulation???
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Too much clitoral stimulation???
| Thu, 08-23-2007 - 10:40pm |
Firstly, I believe there is a such thing as a stupid question. Secondly, here it is.
Is there a such thing as too much clitoral stimulation?
I had no trouble reaching G-spot orgasm. In fact, I thought I was urinating on the poor guy. Since that time, I hadn't had sex in over 3 years. The only stimulation was clitoral, through masturbation. I orgasm every time. I don't insert my fingers (don't ask why). With my most recent partner, I never reach this orgasm. I feel really close even when he performs oral but...nada. Have I become so used to manual clitoral stimulation that I cannot have a G-spot orgasm any more? Are those days long gone??? I should have cherished them while they lasted!
Thanks for your advice/suggestions.

I don't think this is a stupid question at all!
It might just take the two of you time to get things working together, between you. Have you tried stimulation your clitoris during sex? Has he tried specifically to find your g-spot? Also, since the only sexual activity you had during those three years was masturbation and clitoral stimulation, it's likely that it will take you a little while to break that comfortable feeling. You could try stimulating your clitoris when you're having sex with your BF, or show him the type of stimulation you need.
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Okay. I will do that. I will feel as though I'm about to achieve the big G-spot O in a certain position and then the slightest move ruins it. I'm afraid it'll come off rude for me to tell a guy what to do or that he'll feel like he doesnt know what to do or I'm just too darn hard to please.
I will definitely try. Thanks for your advice!
>I'm afraid it'll come off rude for me to tell a guy what to do or that he'll feel like he doesnt know what to do or I'm just too darn hard to please. <
Ohhh no no no NO! Trust me, men want you to tell them how to please you! I have never met one man who didnt want me to say to him "this is what you need to do" and I have never met a man who thought I was to darn hard to please, maybe more of a challenge but not to hard to please and I have been with a lot of men lol. Really, by telling him how to please you your not just helping yourself! Your helping him too! And he will be glad you did!