Too much foreplay??

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Registered: 11-21-2004
Too much foreplay??
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Mon, 05-09-2005 - 10:09pm

Hey I have a question.

Today my bf and I were kind of getting a little hot...we started making out etc etc. At that point, people came home (oh the frustration lol) Anyways so we stopped and cooled down. About an hour later people went back out and we started up again. He finished a lot faster than usual and he said after that after too much foreplay he couldn't hold it back and he apologized (which I felt wasn't necessary because it was much more than satisfactory considering I finished). But I realized, I orgasmed very quickly after he entered. So all the foreplay did a a really good job on me! But for him it ended really quickly after he entered. It's totally not a problem or anything but we were just curious, how could he learn to hold it really going super slowly, embracing the feeling of entrance and remaining still when he was inside for a little bit would help him go for a bit longer...but will that alone work or is there something else that helps men hold it before they let off?

He's a 19 year old, and the guy gets erections just minutes after we finish having sex, in other words he's very...frisky lol. Would just remaining still inside of me help him control it? Any experiences with this? Is there anything I could do to help?

Thanks

pop :o)

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Registered: 12-21-2004
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 5:03pm

I know that sometimes when my bf wants to last longer he will slow down and not go as hard, and he also says that he will think about other things not related to sex to help him last longer.

I think sometimes when you are just so worked up you just can't help though.

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