TOO Small

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Registered: 01-03-2005
TOO Small
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Mon, 01-03-2005 - 8:57pm
When your with some one that is so sweet and nice and when your with him for the first time its not what you expect.OMG was to small like a little boys.Should i feel bad by the way i am thinking.I have never been with some one like that my other boyfriends were well hung. It does make a difference if you have been with some one bigger and you down size.How do you tell him or what should i do?

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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: anne_2110
Mon, 01-03-2005 - 9:10pm

>>How do you tell him or what should i do?<<

How do you tell him....what? What do you want to say to him and what do you think it will achieve? Tread lightly here....how would you feel if he told you your breasts are too small to satisfy him?

What should you do? If you are in the relationship seeking sexual satisfaction alone, then leave him. If you truly love and care for him, you will find a way around it.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
In reply to: anne_2110
Mon, 01-03-2005 - 9:13pm

FWIW: I had only had (three) pretty small penises until Chrismas eve I slept with a guy who had one much larger. I never had the slightest problem achieving satisfaction with the smaller ones. The large one was a similar enough sensation not to worry too much about. They all feel great.

The only difference I could see -- have no idea if this is related to size or what -- the guy on Christmas Eve produced _huge_ amounts of cumm by comparison. He did not want to cumm in the condom (can't really blame him I suppose) so he did all over me, twice in fairly quick succession, and I just could not believe how much there was.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: anne_2110
Mon, 01-03-2005 - 9:24pm
I have to ask you the same thing Aisha asked.

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Registered: 07-03-2003
In reply to: anne_2110
Mon, 01-03-2005 - 9:48pm
Whatever you do don't tell him you think he's small. He already knows he is, so you shouldn't make him feel worse by agreeing. If you're really interested in him as a person take a chance. You may be pleasantly surprised. He may be great at foreplay and other things to make up for lack of size. Keep an open mind. Good Luck!
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: anne_2110
Tue, 01-04-2005 - 1:12am

If you think that penis size is what makes a good lover, then you have a lot to learn. Most women don't have orgasms from intercourse anyway.....it's all the other great stuff, manual and oral sex during foreplay that give us the most pleasure.

If you care about him, you'll teach him how to please you....and enjoy him. If not, then move on.

How do you tell him.....well, if you don't want to crush this sweet guy, you WON'T tell him his penis is too small......you'll find another way of ending it.

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Registered: 01-11-2004
In reply to: anne_2110
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 10:23pm

Hi Ladies:


Hmmm...TOO small.

 

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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: anne_2110
Sat, 01-08-2005 - 3:37pm

Totally agree macman04. The last thing he needs to hear from you is that he has a small penis. The best thing he can hear is you are willing to help him use it to the best of its ability.

Jim

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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: anne_2110
Sun, 01-09-2005 - 10:48am

I mostly agree with the others here. I'm not sure what your definition is of "too" small because I haven't read a problem from you when it comes to enjoying him anyway, other than you not getting when it comes to penis sizes.

Yes, enjoy thing he can do for you and to you, and don't focus anymore on the size, just like women wouldn't want their men to compare more voluptuous busts from their pasts. How good is he at foreplay, at kissing, at cunnilingus? How willing is he? Has he any experience with those sensual massages? Is he boring or exciting?

Furthermore, I don't know what it is that you think be done either. If you are having that much difficulty at enjoying intercourse because of the different size you have now, then try to have fun with different positions/techniques that have proven so effective for other couples with smaller size issues:

Size Matters
http://www.ivillage.com/relationships/experts/sexpro/qas/0,,166928_251416,00.html

10 Hot New Positions
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,166928_633458,00.html

There are plenty of fun techniques you can experiment with that actually the intimate contact too. Please give 'em a try if you need to. Hopefully you'll let us know how things go.

C h a r a c t e r


above all else


Mr. Para

 

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Registered: 12-15-2004
In reply to: anne_2110
Sun, 01-09-2005 - 11:02pm

In this case I would suggest a pump. If you love him well enough to stay with him. You can get them just about anywhere. But if your concerned about what people would think then I would go to yahoo web and type in cheap penis pumps and it will give you some sites that you can go to and get one discreteely and no one would know but you and him.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: anne_2110
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 9:48am
Again, where do you get your information? Penis pumps are a joke. NOTHING will make a man's penis any bigger than it is. In fact, pumps can do damage, and prevent future erections.

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