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Too Small For Me
| Wed, 06-30-2004 - 11:19am |
The man I am living with and have recently became enagaged... Has a small penis, that I can not feel during intercourse. And I am bacoming physically unattracted to him, because of this issue.
The physical side of a realationship is important to me. Unfortunately this is missing. Everything else in the relationship is fine. But I feel this is a major concern.
Any suggestions?

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In any event, for me anyhow, arousal isn't about his penis. How long has this been going on? Did you feel this unattraction from day one of having sex with him?
Edited 6/30/2004 12:32 pm ET ET by free_to_choose
Other than oral, fingering and using big ol dildo's (which to me are fun and great, but I want them in ADDITION to my man), I don't know what advice to give you. Unfortunately there is no way to pump those things up!
I guess it will boil down to whether you truly love him and can accept this.
I mentioned the using of fingers as an example of how small of an object I can "feel," not as an "in lieu of." We were talking strictly about intercourse.
Sexual fulfillment in a relationship, as you know, is really important. To some, it can be a make or break deal. I just don't like for people to make her out to seem shallow when it is definitely a legit issue for her.
So, for me(not necessarily anyone else), I view it as shallow to judge a man by the size of his penis.
I'm sure the OP will make the right choice for her.
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