Too soon.....PLEASE HELP
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Too soon.....PLEASE HELP
| Thu, 11-29-2007 - 1:56pm |
My boyfriend and I have just recently started having sex.....its been about a month and a half, and we've been together for 1 year and a couple of months. The thing is, is that he doesnt last very long. It frustrates us both because we want to continue but he doesnt last for longer than five minutes. What can

Hi lovebuddha, welcome to the board.
He can try a few techniques to help him last longer. Usually when my bf feels like he has to cum and wants to last longer, he will slow down or stop for a second until the feeling subsides and/or squeeze the base of his penis. You can also spend a lot of time on foreplay to get you all heated (and almost there) so when you start having intercourse, then you're pretty much "there".
It's been a year of nothing, and all of a sudden.........intercourse.
Welcome to the board, lovebuddha.
Often, when guys are new to sex, it's difficult for them to hold back and last for very long. It's something that might get better with time. As the other members have mentioned, he can learn to last longer, but I would think it might just take a little time for him to adjust to the wonderful new sensations he is experiencing.
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