Topless Sunbathing...1 more question

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Registered: 10-14-2006
Topless Sunbathing...1 more question
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Wed, 10-18-2006 - 4:59pm

I have read all the responses to my questions from my earlier post and I am surprised. I have read this board a long time and the women who respond here seem much more "liberated" than the general population. You seem more likely to have anal sex, swallow during oral sex (and like it), complain your man doesn't want sex enough, want to spice up your sex life, etc.

So I have been very surprised about the response to my questions about topless sunbathing. I thought there would be many more women engaging in it, enjoying it, and recommending my wife to try it. I would think tanning topless is much tamer than many of the things discussed on this board.

I don't understand. Why don't you enjoy sunbathing topless?

By the way, I won't ask my wife to do it either.

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Registered: 10-14-2006
Thu, 11-02-2006 - 3:44pm

You and my wife must be just the same. She too has a great body,one I would like to see more often, but she is very inhibited. Why do you think you are like that? I am just the opposite, I skinny dip alot in our pool (private back yard), enjoy having as few tan lines as possible. I'll be skinny dipping and my wife just keeps her one piece suit on, I have learned not to bother her about it. She knows how much I would like her to take it off, but she never does. I just don't get it.

What stops you from enjoying the sensations of being naked? Please try and explain so I can better understand my wife. Thanks

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 11-02-2006 - 4:06pm

Why do you have to label your wife as "inhibited" simply because she is more private about her body?

Does she enjoy sex? Does she have a problem being naked with you?

IF not, then she isn't "inhibited" at all, she simply has a different point of view when it comes to public nudity. Every one of us has differing sensibilities about those types of things and to negatively label people because of those differences is wrong. Your feelings aren't hers and you have no right to assume they should be.

Isn't it possible that she might wish that you would keep your trunks on? Maybe she wishes that YOU were more discreet about your body but she allows you to do as you feel is best....for YOU.

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Registered: 04-27-2006
Fri, 11-03-2006 - 7:28pm
My gf isn't into serious sunbathing period because of aging effects on the skin. She uses factor 30 sunblock as do I since we are both fair skinned and she does have rosacea, plus when she got back from a trip to California last year she had a thing on her arm that frighteningly like Melanoma. Thank goodness it wasn't but it got her attention and we were on pins and needles until we got the results from her Dermatologist.
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Registered: 10-12-2006
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 1:58am

I'm originally from Italy so to go topless is more than normal....and I have a great bod lol.

Megan mom to River

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Registered: 11-06-2006
Mon, 11-06-2006 - 11:15pm

Sorry for you buddy ~ you and your wife don't know what you are missing. I feel that exchanging oral sex with your partner is quite possibly the most intimate thing that you can share.

Has your wife ever tried it and just doesn't like it? Does she like receiving oral sex from you? I think if she is on the receiving end of some of it that it is pretty selfish of her to not return the favor.

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