Trained on a Vibrator

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Registered: 06-14-2004
Trained on a Vibrator
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Thu, 07-14-2005 - 8:24pm
I have had my first orgasm through my vibrator...to this day that is the only way I can orgasm. I have had several close calls but not near the same. My teacher who was also a sex therapist said that it is possible to get "addicted" to a vibrator. I am wondering how to orgasm through my partners stimulation...do I just stop completely using my vibrator or is it to late?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 8:33pm

No, it's not too late. Put the vibe away. Use your fingers from now on and with time and a little help from your hormones, you should find yourself responding more and more.

You learned to respond to the vibes and you can learn to respond to manual stimulation.

BTW, does oral stimulation work for you at all?

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Registered: 07-09-2005
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 8:35pm
I also had my first orgasm with a vibrator. However, I can still climax with my partner. It does take longer though, and it takes a lot of communication on my part so he knows exactly what to do, and how and where to do it. Although I am good friends with my vibe, there's no comparison when someone else does it for you!