Trouble With Sex
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Trouble With Sex
| Sun, 10-17-2004 - 1:31pm |
I was going to add this to the "I need sex lessons" discussion but my problem's a little different.
we've been married for 4 years. He's my first partner, but he's had others before me. I try my best to please him, but we end up getting really frustrated. I find being on top very awkward (not to mention uncomfortable) and he always slips out.I just don't know how to move -- one time he even called me "clumsy." Like THAT'S going to encourage me. Well, now we don't even bother with sex anymore. I think it's been a year since we tried. I feel really hurt, like it's my fault but I know it's BOTH our faults. I suppose we need counselling -- but since we never even discuss sex anymore it's difficult to bring up.
Has anyone else ever gone through something like this? I just want to know that I'm not alone!

If he is not willing to let you know how to pleasure him, then it is his fault, not yours.