Is this a turn off?
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Is this a turn off?
| Tue, 06-12-2007 - 9:40am |
Hey,
Well i've been seeing my new guy for a while now and we've had sex a few times and its been really really great, however when we can't see each other, due to work etc, we get quite kinky over the phone, i really enjoy this, but heres the thing..i have a really high sex drive and get really kinky over the phone with him in messages, does it turn a guy off when a girl has a really high sex drive and gets kinky like that? I don't want to put him off as I really like him, he's said before that he doesn't mind me being kinky but if i mention a high sex drive would it scare him off?

my partner in the siggy exchange
It'll scare him off if he thinks you're going to be all over him all the time, and he's not as interested as you are.
Why do you have to "tell" him anything? He's probably got the idea from your phone conversations....and he's not objecting, is he? Why are you worried about telling him something that he already knows?
I don't think you need to worry ... he's a guy lol! I know I have a really high sex drive (I was much worse when I was younger) and have been through a LOT of relationships and not one single guy minded the fact that ... as my ex-husband used to say 'hearing the faucet running even turns you on'. LOL ... well doh ... there's a reason behind that. Actually .. at tthat time in my life I was perputally horny so it didn't take anything to turn me. Thank goodness I mellowed a little!
So, let him know you can be just as kinky as HE wants you to be and he will love it. I can't remember a time though when I ever pushed a guy's kinky envelope and I am a bit kinky anyway !!