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| Thu, 08-05-2004 - 5:45pm |
I have always wondered why girls find two girls being together so exciting. I don't find two guys together exciting. I would love to know guys so please fill me in.

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Edited 8/5/2004 5:57 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Leticia
however, i think you underestimate the number of men that have thought of being with another man. i generally talk pretty frankly with my partners and at least 50% of the men i've been with have either been with another man or fantasized about it. so it's not as uncommon as you think.
one other point -- when we envision two men together often people assume they are not masculine, but if two women are together that generally doesn't mean they are not feminine -- so it is not as threatening to gender identity.
Edited 8/5/2004 7:02 pm ET ET by sugarbeat
There's an evolutionary aspect as well. If I can remember correctly, I think it's called Sexual Demorphism. Most animals in which the male of the species is somewhat larger than the female, ie gorillas, lions, ..etc. there is usually one male grouped with multiple females. When the male and female are closer in size, ie birds, then it's usually one male, one female.
As you go back in human history, say a million years or so, the male was substantially larger than the female.
I'm sure everyone gets just as excited as I do talking about evolution, lol. That's about the extent of my knowledge on Sexual Demorphism, and I don't know to what extent it is correct. However, something is going on as the multiple female fantasy thing is wide spread among us guys. I have known women who fantasy about two men, but it seems rare.
I would imagine that if you can see each guys "Do before I die list" (and the real one, not his politically correct, toned-down version), the two women fantasy would probably be in the top portion of most guy's list.
Who cares! I'm female, I'm not a lesbian, and I like watching women together- and I can't wait until the day I myself am with another woman! I don't know why it is . . .
Women are sexier than men. Sure, nothing can compare to a man's penis and the ways it makes us feel . . . but womens' bodies are much more beautiful . . . there's so much more there. A woman's body is like a playground. I don't know. I just don't blame men for being as horny as they are. LOL!
J.
I think the media IS more blatantly sexual now, that's pretty obvious, but women have been used as sex objects to sell things ever since there was media. Nothing's changed really.
I believe girls can be more open about their interest in other women now, because there's no social stigma but there was always experimentation among girls, just as with the boys. I just wonder how much is REAL interest and how much is feigned to appear more sexually uninhibited to guys.
I do agree that there is more homosexual curiosity and interest among men than is really known. A recent Oprah show covering AA males living on the "down low" is a good example of an underground lifestyle that few women know about or men admit to.
Edited 8/6/2004 4:15 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
But men see other men naked all the time...at school, in the locker rooms, bathrooms, etc. much more often than girls do, so they don't lack for the opportunities to check each other out, if they have an interest. However, the social stigma is still there for men, so I'm sure it will stay underground a while longer.
Edited 8/6/2004 4:42 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Edited 8/6/2004 4:38 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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