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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 5:45pm
I have always wondered why girls find two girls being together so exciting. I don't find two guys together exciting. I would love to know guys so please fill me in.

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Sat, 08-07-2004 - 4:07pm
i did not mean that breastfeeding was sexual. all i meant is the early intimacy and familiarity with the softness, scent, curviness of a woman may be imprinted on a baby so when women and men become sexual beings they still have latent associations and desire for intimacy with the female form.

i have never breastfed, so i don't know what it's like. my mother reported that breastfeeding was physically pleasurable for her. she liked it enough to breastfeed my cousin at the same time she was breastfeeding me. hehe. we joke about it now saying we are "milk sisters."

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Registered: 08-05-2004
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Sat, 08-07-2004 - 9:39pm
There's just something hot about it I guess. A turn on I guess for some women. I do admit to liking that...it's just something that's not normal with me so if I saw that (like a porno) I'd get turn on. I love men though but it's just a sexual thing I guess. It depends on what you like I guess.
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Registered: 05-15-2004
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Sun, 08-08-2004 - 11:14pm
I think sugarbeat said it best:

one other point -- when we envision two men together often people assume they are not masculine, but if two women are together that generally doesn't mean they are not feminine -- so it is not as threatening to gender identity.

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That's so true. Women can be very sensual, and soft, so when you put two "softs" together it just works.

It's interesting - I saw one of the "American Pie" movies at a movie theater, and there is a scene where two girls kiss each other sensually, but they won't do anything more until the two guys watching kiss each other. When the girls kiss, the theater is just silent, as if it were a kiss in a romantic movie between a guy & a girl. But when the guys kiss, the whole place erupts in "Eeeewwwwww!" and "That's disgusting", etc. It's something that's obviously deeply engrained in our society.

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