ummm peeing??

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Registered: 12-08-2004
ummm peeing??
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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 2:08am
Ok,
weirdest and sickest thing EVER happened to me last night. be warned. I can't tell my friends, so I guess this explains this message. So this guy that I used to more or less be with came over last night. We had both been drinking excessively ( we're in university and graduating), and I knew he was going to be where I was going to be at night. I promised myself before I went out, that if for some reason if he ended up coming over I would not sleep with him. Anyways he was out with his friends and I was out with mine and he kept buying me and my friend a lot of drinks, thinking that he was oging to get a threesome, and he went on to kiss my friend. I obviously shut him down on that one, and I was pretty pissed off so snuck off and I left where we were. 10 minutes later I get a call saying he's walking to my house, I told him on the phone, fine you can come over ( i have problems saying no), but there would be NO sex etc etc. ( Keep in mind before this night I really did think him to be very nice and respectful). So he came over, tried hitting on me but I was keeping my ground pretty stong, sure we kissed and a little more but that was about it. So we went to sleep and at some point I got up to go to the bathroom and went back to sleep. maybe 10 minutes later he got up, stumbled around, looking very drunk, ( drunker than he had all night), and I think got confused and peed in my room!!! holy crap. So i was lying there is bed completely dumbfounded, too freaked out to say anything. I waited for him to fall asleep and then I grabbed some clothes from my roommates room ( she's away) and I went to my friends house at 630 in the morning. I got there, told her not to ask anything, and slept there.
In the morning, obviously I was not there he woke up and he called my cell twice but I didn't answer. So i'm thinking he doesn't remember. maybe he was sleep walking?? I can't believe this happened. I am so disgusted. Later on msn he was all how are you feeling today like everything was all normal, and he didn't even ask me where or why I dissapeared in the middle of the night and left him alone in my house. SO maybe i shouldn't have posted this on the sex board, but who knows, he came over wanting sex, and then somehow ended up peeing in my room. Obviously I have sanitized the area over and ovcer. I don't know what to do. I am so freaked out. If he doens't remember... should I ummm tell him?? I know if he doesn't remember he'll probably be mortified, but as he should be right?? I can't tell my friends what happened, as I am totally mortified myself. what should I do/ think?? help!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: lulu1305
Fri, 04-21-2006 - 5:36am
i would tell him. maybe the embarrasment will knock some sense into him and keep him from doing a repeat. further, i would have had him clean it up.
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Registered: 09-17-2005
In reply to: lulu1305
Fri, 04-21-2006 - 7:26am

lol! why exactly did you leave the place just because he peed in the wrong place?

lol I'm sorry but thats just a funny story, not only would I have told him but I'd have told all my friends too. Maybe that would be mean but come on, it's so hilarious! I mean, you pee in someones bedroom and it's gotta be fair game! lol Oh I love a good "he/she was so drunk" story.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: lulu1305
Fri, 04-21-2006 - 9:41am

What should you think? You should think that he was so drunk, he could have been in bed with an elephant and he wouldn't have known the difference! When people are drunk, they do stupid things!

What should you do? You should remember this the next time you set out to get drunk, and hope that you'll never do anything so stupid....or better yet, not drink yourself into that state to be SURE that you'll never do anything so stupid.

People who can't drink without drinking "excessively" shouldn't drink at all!

Chances are he doesn't have a clue what he did.....and depending on whether you want to embarass him or not......tell him, or don't tell him.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: lulu1305
Fri, 04-21-2006 - 11:09am

Okay, maybe it's because I'm a mother or something, but it's JUST pee. It washes out.

And yes, as drunk as he was, in a strange place, he was probably half asleep believing he was in the bathroom.

If you want him to pay for cleaning your carpet, then tell him what he did. Next time, play it safe and don't invite a drunk guy back to your place. He could have done more than pee on your carpet.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: lulu1305
Fri, 04-21-2006 - 8:01pm

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Registered: 11-22-2004
In reply to: lulu1305
Sat, 04-22-2006 - 9:48pm
Pretty funny story. It's probably not all that gross, I mean when you have had a lot to drink i believe urine is almost entirely water. It reminded me of one of the first times I had an overnight date with my current b/f, we were staying in a hotel on the 3rd floor, and he got up in the middle of the night and peed out the window, through the screen, then came right bad to bed and kept sleeping. He had no recollection of it whatever the next day and i believe he was totally sleepwalking. I was laughing so hard at him. He has never done it since. We hadn't had a thing to drink either. It was just so random.