Unaware of ejaculation??

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Registered: 02-03-2006
Unaware of ejaculation??
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Fri, 05-26-2006 - 1:06pm

Hi Everyone,

The other day my boyfriend and I were randomly talking about what color of bedsheets to buy. When I suggested dark green, he said that wouldn't work because after we had sex, you would be able to see ejaculate, and started teasing me. I asked him why he was teasing me, because it was from him. He then gave me this weird look and said "You're kidding, right?" I always figured it was from his seman, but he proceded to tell me that it was from me! I told him there was no way it was from me, I mean I would know if I was ejaculating, right? But he said he has seen it come out of me. I am SO confused by this. I thought for sure I would be able to tell if I was ejaculating! I have never felt a urinating-like sensation when orgasming, nore have I ever felt excessively wet during orgasm. Could I seriously be ejaculating and not even know it?? This is just so weird to me.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 05-26-2006 - 1:25pm
What exactly does your b/f see?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 05-26-2006 - 1:30pm

Maybe he's confused about what he's seeing! Lots of guys confuse lubrication with ejaculation! Ejaculation is a clear liquid, not much to "see"....and lubrication is a thick whiteish creamy substance, much like his semen. Some women lubricate enough to leak out, and stain the bedding.

Also, if you ejaculate, the bed will be SOAKED.....not "stained".

As for what you "feel".....sometimes you feel nothing......except the warm wetness, and there's lots of it, so there's no mistaking what it is. I ejaculate sometimes several times during a "session", and sometimes I feel it, sometimes I don't. But there is NEVER any doubt that it happened.

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Registered: 01-07-2005
Sat, 05-27-2006 - 1:06am
For me, female ejaculation never involves a "urinating-like sensation"; i actually only feel a warm-flow when it happens. Having never seen it flow out of me, but have seen the wet/soaked sheets afterwards, I have to agree that it's more of a clear liquid. I know during some sex sessions, I produce a lot of lubrication but I know it's not FE because there's no soaked sheets.