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| Thu, 05-19-2005 - 1:22pm |
I stopped by my friend's b-day party last night and Dan and his gf were there. They asked if I had talked to John. I said "No, he hasn't called me, is that a bad sign?" And they said no, because he doesn't have my number. They said they hadn't talked to him this week but said he had a great time with me, thought I was great, etc. I told them that I really liked him and that I wanted to see him again. Then Dan kept saying that I should give John a call sometime so he gave me his number.
But after a lot of thinking, do I really want to call him? Shouldn't he be getting my number and calling me if he's interested? If he talks to Dan, he'll find out how I feel so then he can decide if he wants to call me. I just don't want to chance any akwardness if he's not interestd. So if I don't hear from him this weekend, I'll let it go. Do you agree?

Will you shut up and call the man!?! *LOL* You obviously like him..He MIGHT be too shy to call you. I know my DH was too shy to call me..It took him TWO WEEKS to call me. Call the man. I know you can do it. Pick up the phone...If you do, I'll give you a cookie..Now, dial his number..Ok, now don't hang up..Tell him "Hi, this is....." and then say, "I was just wondering if you wanted to get together some time and hang out?" And he'll say yes..Good girl!
CALL HIM! *LOL*
OK FINE!!! But it better be a damn good cookie! LOL!
I don't know why I'm obsessing, too scared of rejection I guess. I think I'd rather not know than chance being blown off by him.
hugs,
Morgan
I actually wonder how shy the two of you would be at this sensitive point had you two NOT slept together the sudden way you did. LOL!
Here's something else to keep in mind. You were told by his friend that it would be a good idea to give him a call and he even gave you his number, something to that effect. I think thats a positive sign, whether John shares the same level of feeling on this as you do or not. Best of luck to you!
C H A R A C T E R
TOUCHE GTB !
Trust your insticts. If he is not shy to have sex with you, if he is not shy to brag about you to Dan, he should not be shy to call you.
On a side note, so he's only been broken up with his ex for a couple months. I guess they dated for a few years. And she called him that morning when I was with him. He played her message on speakerphone and she just said she wanted to talk to him. So I think there could be some unresolved issues there.
Anyway, I'm just hoping to see him this out this weekend. But I'm not going to call him. He can get my number and he does know where I live.