Vagina Tightness...
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Vagina Tightness...
| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 2:11am |
My man & I haven't had sex for a whole week, so we did tonight. After we had finished (he didn't even last 5 minutes, but that's beside the point), he said, "I thought you'd pu**y be tighter." (since it'd been a week) I asked him, "What? It was tighter last time?" He responded, "Yeah." I was hurt by this. "Well, maybe I should have it stitched up." I said. I was hurt by this, but atleast I appreciate him being honest with me. What should I do to strengthen my PC muscles? Kegel exercises? Does it actually work? Does it make your pu**y tighter? I heard it does. My man says that I satisfy him, but when he makes a comment like that, it makes me wonder... Please help!!! (I haven't had any kids or anything-- my vagina's too big, that's all!)

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Dump this guy and start building your self confidence and get your medical situation squared away. Then maybe you'll be able to develop a healthy relationship with someone who can give you what you want and need.
Edited 10/9/2004 1:05 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
He rather do cocaine instead of having sex with you, he rather watch porn than have sex with you, he calls the shots when it comes to sex, his way, his terms, when he feels like, he criticizes your body, tells you your vagina is too loose, your boobs are too small, he has no respect or consideration for your feelings and you think you have a good relationship with this guy and there is no tension outside the bedroom???
Seems to me hightek, is that you have on your hands a typical bad boy, a guy who may have attractve physical qualities, but lacks the character, empathy,and motivation to become a good person to be in a loving relationship with. Your hopes of changing him are fleeting at best. Move on, you deserve better.
You: "I thought you'd be bigger."
He's only calling the shots because you're letting him. Tell him you aren't happy, and if he isn't willing to shape up, you need to move on. Don't cheat on him. Leave him.
But by all means do your Kegels. They strengthen your orgasm, and prevent incontinence.
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