vaginal feeling?

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vaginal feeling?
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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 3:12pm
okay i have been wondering about this and decided to post!? i have seen lots of post where women say that there is "little or no feeling" inside the vagina, i have to disagree to this. i have alot of feeling inside my vagina, i can feel any and everything that goes in there..and can feel it all the way around if you know what i mean. i can feel as little as a finger or a tongue or a tampon and i can even feel my SO ejaculate...i dont mean that i know when he has done it because of his motions or because it gets extrememly wet right after, i mean i can actually feel him squirt inside me....am i the abnormal one? lol. i understand that they say there are very little nerve endings in the vagina but i definately have alot of feeling inside mine. ??

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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 3:28pm

i don't know about everyone else, but you are different from me. i generally just feel pressure inside. a tampon i don't feel at all once my body gets accustomed to it. a finger or penis i feel if it is going in and out, if it is stimulating my g-spot or the temperature is different than the inside of my vagina. ejaculation i can sometimes feel if i am paying very close attention and the guy comes hard.

maybe you are part of the group of women that is more likely to come during intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation. let us know if there is a correlation. i am of the other camp that needs direct clitoral simulation.

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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 3:49pm

First, you're not "abnormal". You're different than many women. We're ALL different than one another. It's like nipples....many women have little or no feeling there, but many others do.

As for what you're feeling, we can all "feel" something inserted, penis, finger, tampon or anything else. But what most of us feel is "pressure"....but that's different than the kind of "tingling" feeling that most women get from clitoral stimulation.

Most women can feel things in the vagina, which is why most women enjoy intercourse (particularly if it's a larger penis).....but the KIND of feeling for most women is simply that something is there, and the friction and rubbing. The ejaculation part.....it's "warm", and there's pressure when it spurts out, but that's still not necessarily sexually arousing for most of us, it's just emotionally "nice".

As long as you enjoy it, you don't have to analyze it......just enjoy it.

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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 4:36pm

As the others have mentioned, past a certain point in the vagina, there is little to no feeling until you reach the cervix. What you feel is pressure, friction, movement, etc. as dakine pointed out. So, there IS sensation, just not the same exquisite sensation of clitoral stimulation. It's different.

The whole premise of the tampon and reason it was successful is BECAUSE we aren't aware of it after proper placement.

I can feel all the things you mentioned as well, but I don't respond to those sensations sexually without clitoral stimulation.

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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 4:37pm
okay lol dont get me wrong it is definately a totally different sensation then my clit has but its more then just pressure, i can feel more then just the in and out sensation at the opening, i can feel it inside all the way around. what do you all mean by pressure exactly? pressure to me is like when SO is hitting my cervix?! okay like if i have the smallest size tampon in and i sqeeze my muscles a little bit i can feel the tampon in there? kwim? maybe im crazy lol. but i definately agree that all people are different like you said...my nipples are totally opposite...it does nothing for me when they are played with / sucked on, but on the other hand i can cum from vaginal penetration alone, even penetration from 1 finger makes me cum...i guess i am one that size doesnt matter for because no matter the size it all has alot of feeling to me. my SO actually is bigger then average (9 inches) and we have been together 6 years and have a 2 1/2 year old daughter and i still cant take him with ease (no matter how lubricated) it takes alot of patience for initial penetration and sometimes hurts both of us. okay now i am rambling thanks guys....
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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 4:48pm
ok maybe i am sounding stupid now but you said "after a certin point there is little or no feeling" ...where is that point? and is it different for everyone? i dont have a point where after something goes in a certain distance then i dont feel as much....i feel it all the way to my cervix....lol i dont know
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Sat, 04-22-2006 - 12:07am

Pressure isn't pain, and hitting a cervix isn't pressure, it's pain! Pressure is if you take your forefinger, and press on your arm. You FEEL it.....you feel the pressure of the finger pressing on your arm. It doesn't HURT, it's not pain, it's pressure.

Everyone feels the pressure, or the movement, or the friction of a penis inside them, but when people say that there's no feeling beyond the opening.....they mean no particular sexual feeling (excepting the "g" spot). If you're having vaginal orgasms, that is orgasms from nothing BUT vaginal insertion, then you're among the 20% that don't need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. It's very possible that it's from the "g" spot, too. If he's large, depending on your position, the penis could be stimulating the "g" spot. The only place you would feel PAIN is at the opening of the vagina, or the cervix. The lining of the vagina is so insensitive that a guy can cut it or scrape it with their fingernails, and you'd never know it unless you bleed a little from it.

Again, don't analyze it, just enjoy it.

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Mon, 04-24-2006 - 6:57pm

As I said, the whole premise and success of the tampon is that when it's placed properly inside the vagina, it's not detectable to the wearer. I am certainly aware of it if it's slipped down too far though!

Most women say that the first couple of inches, coincidently where the g-spot would be located, is most sensitive, and thereafter, not much at all. But I shudder to think what childbirth would have been like if my whole vagina was sensitive as the cervix or the vulva!

I'm sure there are degrees of vaginal sensitivity among women, though, as there is with everything else.

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Mon, 04-24-2006 - 11:49pm

As it's been said, we females are all different, and unless you wear your vagina on the outside of your body I don't think anyone of us is abnormal, just different. Case in point: Breast play does nothing for you yet I have climaxed twice from just breast stimulation alone.

Now in regards to vaginas: With XH, even though I couldn't feel him squirt, I could feel his fluids flow out (great feeling by the way). With current man, can't say I've ever felt his juices flow, but I can usually feel him climax inside (he's larger than 6"), and just like you it's not because of any body movement I'm seeing - it's because I feel spasms inside. He is the first man I've had vaginal orgasms though no man has ever given me an O through clit stimulation. Only through mastubation have I experienced that.

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Tue, 04-25-2006 - 1:40pm
Dak you keep mentioning that a larger penis will stimulate a vagina better..maybe thats true for you, but not with most women.. The g spot is normally only a couple inches inside, so a shorter penis can do it also.. Im bigger than normal both in girth and length, and its only AFTRER I cum and it softens and shrinks a little that my wife gets g spot stimulation (this wasnt the case with other women I have been with). Unless a woman is getting "cul de sac" pleasure (rare) I dont see what length has to do with anything other than a visual effect. I would think that girth would be much more effective at stimulating the inside sensitive parts, because it is touching all side at once.
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Tue, 04-25-2006 - 1:44pm
OK, Hump, I've gotta ask. How exactly do you stay inside of her when you're soft? Unless you're a shower, and not a grower, that is? ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )

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