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vaginal feeling?
| Fri, 04-21-2006 - 3:12pm |
okay i have been wondering about this and decided to post!? i have seen lots of post where women say that there is "little or no feeling" inside the vagina, i have to disagree to this. i have alot of feeling inside my vagina, i can feel any and everything that goes in there..and can feel it all the way around if you know what i mean. i can feel as little as a finger or a tongue or a tampon and i can even feel my SO ejaculate...i dont mean that i know when he has done it because of his motions or because it gets extrememly wet right after, i mean i can actually feel him squirt inside me....am i the abnormal one? lol. i understand that they say there are very little nerve endings in the vagina but i definately have alot of feeling inside mine. ??

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i don't know about everyone else, but you are different from me. i generally just feel pressure inside. a tampon i don't feel at all once my body gets accustomed to it. a finger or penis i feel if it is going in and out, if it is stimulating my g-spot or the temperature is different than the inside of my vagina. ejaculation i can sometimes feel if i am paying very close attention and the guy comes hard.
maybe you are part of the group of women that is more likely to come during intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation. let us know if there is a correlation. i am of the other camp that needs direct clitoral simulation.
First, you're not "abnormal". You're different than many women. We're ALL different than one another. It's like nipples....many women have little or no feeling there, but many others do.
As for what you're feeling, we can all "feel" something inserted, penis, finger, tampon or anything else. But what most of us feel is "pressure"....but that's different than the kind of "tingling" feeling that most women get from clitoral stimulation.
Most women can feel things in the vagina, which is why most women enjoy intercourse (particularly if it's a larger penis).....but the KIND of feeling for most women is simply that something is there, and the friction and rubbing. The ejaculation part.....it's "warm", and there's pressure when it spurts out, but that's still not necessarily sexually arousing for most of us, it's just emotionally "nice".
As long as you enjoy it, you don't have to analyze it......just enjoy it.
As the others have mentioned, past a certain point in the vagina, there is little to no feeling until you reach the cervix. What you feel is pressure, friction, movement, etc. as dakine pointed out. So, there IS sensation, just not the same exquisite sensation of clitoral stimulation. It's different.
The whole premise of the tampon and reason it was successful is BECAUSE we aren't aware of it after proper placement.
I can feel all the things you mentioned as well, but I don't respond to those sensations sexually without clitoral stimulation.
Pressure isn't pain, and hitting a cervix isn't pressure, it's pain! Pressure is if you take your forefinger, and press on your arm. You FEEL it.....you feel the pressure of the finger pressing on your arm. It doesn't HURT, it's not pain, it's pressure.
Everyone feels the pressure, or the movement, or the friction of a penis inside them, but when people say that there's no feeling beyond the opening.....they mean no particular sexual feeling (excepting the "g" spot). If you're having vaginal orgasms, that is orgasms from nothing BUT vaginal insertion, then you're among the 20% that don't need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. It's very possible that it's from the "g" spot, too. If he's large, depending on your position, the penis could be stimulating the "g" spot. The only place you would feel PAIN is at the opening of the vagina, or the cervix. The lining of the vagina is so insensitive that a guy can cut it or scrape it with their fingernails, and you'd never know it unless you bleed a little from it.
Again, don't analyze it, just enjoy it.
As I said, the whole premise and success of the tampon is that when it's placed properly inside the vagina, it's not detectable to the wearer. I am certainly aware of it if it's slipped down too far though!
Most women say that the first couple of inches, coincidently where the g-spot would be located, is most sensitive, and thereafter, not much at all. But I shudder to think what childbirth would have been like if my whole vagina was sensitive as the cervix or the vulva!
I'm sure there are degrees of vaginal sensitivity among women, though, as there is with everything else.
As it's been said, we females are all different, and unless you wear your vagina on the outside of your body I don't think anyone of us is abnormal, just different. Case in point: Breast play does nothing for you yet I have climaxed twice from just breast stimulation alone.
Now in regards to vaginas: With XH, even though I couldn't feel him squirt, I could feel his fluids flow out (great feeling by the way). With current man, can't say I've ever felt his juices flow, but I can usually feel him climax inside (he's larger than 6"), and just like you it's not because of any body movement I'm seeing - it's because I feel spasms inside. He is the first man I've had vaginal orgasms though no man has ever given me an O through clit stimulation. Only through mastubation have I experienced that.
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