Vaginal Looseness

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Vaginal Looseness
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Mon, 03-14-2005 - 10:21pm
I know this has been discussed here often. That women return to normal size and DO NOT stretch out from a lot of sexual activity, they simply become more comfortable and less tense. Anyway, I'm trying to prove this to a friend of mine and I cannot find any legitimate looking info on the subject! Anyone know of any?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 03-15-2005 - 1:00pm
This should solve all of it.

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Tue, 03-15-2005 - 1:10pm

What you can research is estrogen. Estrogen is the hormone responsible for the elasticity of the vaginal walls. As long as she's a healthy female, she should "snap back" ;-) quite normally.

Here's a small excerpt...
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The Role of Estrogen

Estrogen affects a woman’s sex life by keeping her vagina moist and able to stretch. When a woman is not excited, her vagina is a collapsed space. It is not an open tunnel as often thought. As she begins to feel aroused, the vagina gets both longer and wider. The cells lining the vagina secrete fluid that makes the vagina slippery. These changes in the vagina depend on the hormone estrogen. If a woman’s estrogen levels are low -- for example, after menopause -- swelling and lubrication of the vagina take place more slowly. Without estrogen, the vaginal lining thins and the vaginal walls lose some elasticity. Even if a woman feels very excited, her vagina may remain tight and dry. This condition is known as vaginal atrophy.

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As far as myself. Two pregnancies and having sex with a well-endowed man for almost thirty years has not changed the "feel" inside. DH would have a different take on it than your bf. You know what they say about wisdom....

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Tue, 03-15-2005 - 2:24pm
Yes, I double-dog DARE him!
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Tue, 03-15-2005 - 2:27pm

Well, you can always fight fire with fire. Tell him that YOU heard that masturbation makes the penis SHRINK over time and then eye HIS suspiciously! ;p LOL!

Seriously, start challenging his knowledge of his own sex organ and see how he responds. Demand proof in writing of all his claims.




Edited 3/15/2005 3:55 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 03-15-2005 - 6:57pm
Haha. As much fun as that would be I think its a no go. His claim at least has some basis of truth. That virgins are generally tighter than non-virgins. This 'supports' his claim. While I explained the mental aspect - nervousness and tensing - he says that could just be a reason I 'made up.' Why I would make that up I don't know - its not like I'm promiscuous and defending myself. But yeah I'll try to think of something comparable - and I'll keep looking for articles - I really want to positively prove him wrong.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 03-16-2005 - 12:02am

Well, some men and women DO believe that masturbation causes the penis to shrink over time, so that is something comparable.

It sounds like your BF is looking to judge you once you actually do have sex and is using this argument to get you to "come clean" about your sexual history. I don't think it's going to matter what you say, he's going to believe what he wants. Do you really want to have sex with someone who's that distrustful?

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Wed, 03-16-2005 - 7:19am

Remember the post a long time ago from the woman who's b/f or husband was away on business for a few weeks, came home, had sex, then told her she must have been cheating on him with a guy that had a bigger penis....because she was looser?

Wonder if it was the same guy? LOL

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Wed, 03-16-2005 - 7:33am

You sound like me......I'm not normally argumentative, but sometimes when you're challenged, you've just got to stick to your guns, and prove that you're right.

I did another search, this time, typing in "vaginal looseness".....here's something I found, and if it's not enough to satisfy him, there were a LOT of other entries that I didn't check out: http://www.carolqueen.com/pages/advice/2000/advice081100.html

Good Luck, lol

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Registered: 07-06-2004
Wed, 03-16-2005 - 10:19pm

Nice link, but it seems to put a lot of emphasis upon kegel exercises. I don't own a vagina, but have visited quite a number. I wonder if women are aware of their individual size? Women can vary from having several large babies and are still very tight and penetration pulls and tears my skin. To never having a baby and there's plenty of room. Everyone is different.

With almost all new partners, it's quite tight for the first half-dozen encounters, like they have to stretch to accomodate me. Then it remains the same size. If I'm out of town for a week or two, it's like they tighten up and it takes only an encounter or two before they can accomodate me. I know it's a muscled and elastic organ. I've read the threads and most will say a lady has to relax to receive all of it. I'd think after knowing me, and being out of town for a time, they'd be familiar with me and be able to accept all of me upon my return. I've had a number of women comment that having gotten used to my size, they would have a difficult time with a smaller man. Who knows? Does a woman's organ after a while expect a certain filling, or is it simply a woman being able to relax and fully accept a man?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 10:05am
This statement in that article cracked me up.

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