Vaginal Looseness
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Vaginal Looseness
| Mon, 03-14-2005 - 10:21pm |
I know this has been discussed here often. That women return to normal size and DO NOT stretch out from a lot of sexual activity, they simply become more comfortable and less tense. Anyway, I'm trying to prove this to a friend of mine and I cannot find any legitimate looking info on the subject! Anyone know of any?

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Kegel's don't "exercise" the "internal" vaginal muscles. They "exercise" and hopefully tighten the PC muscle......which runs from the anus to the clitoris, and surrounds the the anus, the vagina, the urethra and the clitoris. Kegels were originally "invented" or discovered to help with bladder leakage which unfortunately happens to women when they get older, particularly if they've had several children. Then someone discovered that they will tighten the opening of the vagina, as well.
Aside from the fact that arousal will relax the vaginal muscles, you're right....there are of course "variations" of vaginal size, just like there are variations of penis sizes. And also, a very small flaccid penis can become really large when it's erect, and a larger flaccid penis can barely grow when it becomes erect. I would imagine that the same variances appear in vaginas.
Your question about it taking several times for a woman to fully relax and accept your penis, is mainly due to nervousness the first few times.....particularly if you're on the large size. Mentally, that can intimidate a woman, until she's comfortable with you. As for going away and coming back a few weeks later.....I guess it's the same, a little nervous for a while.
Bottom line is that we're all different, and react in different ways. How boring it would be if it were otherwise!
> Then someone discovered that they will tighten the opening of the vagina, as well.
Kegels are a marvelous discovery, and they really can tighten/strengthen the opening. Eons ago, I met a lady that had such strength she could tighten and prevent an ejaculation from entering her. If it slipped out, she could prevent it's entry. That is power, like she was rape-proof.
>As for going away and coming back a few weeks later.....I guess it's the same, a little nervous for a while.
I don't know about a large penis mentally intimidating a woman. I'm still sorting out after a week or two biz trip, upon my return it takes a time or two to again open a woman enough to accept all of me. Like it tightened up over that time. If a woman knows a guy, can a penis still intimidate a woman?
" I've had a number of women comment that having gotten used to my size, they would have a difficult time with a smaller man. Who knows? Does a woman's organ after a while expect a certain filling, or is it simply a woman being able to relax and fully accept a man?"
My wife's ex was one of the largest she ever experienced and in ten years of daily sex she never had one orgasm. I'm strictly average in size and though it took time to develop, she has become capable of having multiple orgasms every time we have intercourse. Go figure.
And as to the OP, after ten years of daily sex with a LARGE penis, DW fits my average one very snugly. So I guess all the activity didn't loosen her up.
And, sumguy, Kegels ARE a marvelous technique and a major reason why DW is still snug. Many other women report good results from doing them. I'm not sure why GTB constantly denigrates such a helpful technique.
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