vaginal pressure?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2006
vaginal pressure?
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Wed, 03-28-2007 - 9:16pm

i am 18 years old and dating someone who is 8 years older.

We have had sex a few times, but at some point i cannot withstand the pressure of him thrusting in and out(not that it hurts or anything), or i have to pee really bad, and it takes me FOREVER.

I constantly have to push him away, at least 3 times when we are having sex. Not only is this a tease(unintentionally of course), but it frustrates him as well, and is taking somewhat of a toll. He has to wait for me to come back, so he can finish.

Is this normal, and what can I do to fix the problem? Or can any of you relate? I just need some insight...

thank you dears...

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
Thu, 03-29-2007 - 12:12am

That "feeling" of having to urinate is actually your vulva engorging with blood because you're highly aroused....and if you don't stop, you'll have an orgasm.

You should always empty your bladder before sex, then you'll KNOW it's not the need to urinate. It's COMPLETELY normal.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2006
Fri, 03-30-2007 - 10:14am

If your bladder is empty before sex (or after the first time you get up to pee), then the feeling you are having is the signal that an orgasm is near. Many times when the g-spot is stimulated, the feeling of needing to pee will result in a female ejaculation too.

The next time you are sure your bladder is empty and you feel this, try to just continue having sex and enjoy the pleasures that can follow.