Vaginal Rejuvenation

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Registered: 06-15-2007
Vaginal Rejuvenation
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Fri, 06-15-2007 - 1:32pm
I have recently considered having this surgery, my husband and I have been married for 20 yrs this fall. He has never said anything at all, no complaint there, but I had two large babies and it just doesn't feel like before. Does anyone know anything about it or has anyone had this done, I wonder what men think about it.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 06-16-2007 - 9:57pm

"I have a friend who says she can practically pick her husband up now, using her muscles, and it's actually a very good description."

DH usually just asks, "Can I have my penis back now?" as I tend to keep hold of him for a while after orgasm (LOL). He also loves it when we are both lying still and only my muscles are moving to squeeze his penis. I do think that using the PC muscles makes sex better in all respects, and definitely helps with g-spot orgasms.

After having kids, when my muscles were more relaxed, I found that I didn't enjoy sex as much.



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Registered: 06-17-2007
Sun, 06-17-2007 - 1:19am
I heard a couple talking about this exact thing not long ago. The husband had no complaints, but wanted to be supportive of her, she had it done...their sex life improved 100% and they said it was good to begin with. The wife felt more confident, and she could tell a difference physically (as could he) They were much more aware of the change that children and time had created after the surgery, and had nothing but positive things to say. She even looked happier and more confident to me!
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Registered: 11-15-2006
Sun, 06-17-2007 - 10:07am
LOL, I so agree! I love my SmartBalls. I have not had to use them in awhile. I found I wore them a lot when I first got them, got tighter, dh wanted more sex so now the ACT of sex helps keep me really toned! I know DH in the past has asked me to put them in earlier in the day so I am really warmed up by the time he gets home. I can come easily even when he pulls them out. It is worth repeating, EVERYONE NEEDS BALLS!



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Sun, 06-17-2007 - 10:14am

I had two children (last delivery was 18 years ago--both were average birth weight and consisted of very short and uncomplicated labor ) and I (nor does my husband) feel any difference. I rarely, if ever, do kegels...BUT, I do have many orgasms (sometimes as many as 10 a day . So, if in fact kegels do help, at least there's a way to do them "naturally."

My advice--orgasm more....You'll not only be happier, but you'll be keeping it tightier for the mightier.... ;-)

....all in good fun....

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Sun, 06-17-2007 - 11:49am
LOL, no it is not arousal! I wished! Shower huh, hmmmm, she may not know it yet but she will have some smart balls soon! Now the trick is to get her to actually use them.
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Sun, 06-17-2007 - 11:04pm
So after her hysterectomy she has a vaginal discharge (wetting problem)? is that what you mean bronco? I didn't have any problem with anything like that but if they have her on hormone replacement therapy that may contribute to it. It doesn't really sound normal though. She may want to talk to a doc about it to be safe. Some discharge can be infection if the surgery was done recently. That needs to be watched closely. Talking about kegels and the ben wa balls ... these are VERY useful to help you get back to normal after a hysterectomy too ! I'm better now than I was before.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 9:25am
Well Bronco, you know we want a report too! But, if she's not using them, or not enjoying them, just let us know and we will send you some encouraging words to use ;-)


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Registered: 06-15-2007
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 10:48am
Sorry I was gone for the weekend, and just read your posting. Thanks for the info, I'm glad to hear it was positive. I think I am going to give the Smart Balls a try first, see how that works before I try the surgery. Thanks!
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Registered: 06-15-2007
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 10:49am
I will have to mention this to DH. Thanks for the info.
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Mon, 06-18-2007 - 11:08am
Cool I appreciate that,lol.
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