Vaginas: size and variation
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| Tue, 07-06-2004 - 4:53pm |
But, if you ask a man that has had a few lovers, he KNOWS that women vary in size and capacity as much as men's penises vary in size...and we all know that men do vary in size quite a bit. Quoting humpdaddy: "In my experience vaginas come in different depths just as penises come in different lengths."
I know this from talking to other women, too. I have a friend who told me (embarrassed) that if a penis isn't huge, she almost can't even feel it, and the only penises that satisfy her are enormous. (She had two vaginal births.) I'm the opposite. Although I'm 5'6" and not small-boned (more like average in overall size), I'm very tight and small down there. (I've had one c-section birth so no baby has passed through.) Men have exclaimed about the tightness several times in my sexual experience. My hubby, most especially. I never knew this about myself (or ever would have thought it) until former boyfriends said it. The first time we made love, he looked amazed and wide-eyed and said, "You are as tight as an 18 year old!" He still comments on it to this day. His ex's vagina was loose/bigger.
So, I've wondered for years...does childbirth sometimes, or maybe often, change a woman's vaginal size? Often, breasts sag after nursing, we all know that. What about the other?
I wonder if some young women and/or never-had-babies women sometimes have bigger vaginal canals, too?

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Personally, my vagina has changed little, even after giving birth naturally twice.
Leticia
This made me wonder about the look of the overall woman. Do some women have bigger vulva as in length or thickness? Is large or long labia a turn off?
I've never heard of a man that was turned off by ANY kind of labia.....when they're there, they're NOT studying the way it looks! All they worry about is GETTING there, and it being attached to a cooperative woman!
Women are the only ones who worry about labia size......just as pretty much only men are worried about penis size.
If you want to see "variations" of women's vulvae.....check out www.the-clitoris.com
Where the difference comes in is the woman's age and experience. An older woman, who's comfortable with her body, and with sex will relax faster, and lubricate better.....and might SEEM somewhat looser, but the vagina is "designed" to "form around" whatever is inserted. A young girl, new to sex is never going to be able to relax and lubricate as well as an older experienced woman.....so she'll seem tighter.
You rarely hear about a mature woman having a problem with a physical exam, and/or a pap smear.....but young girls do......because they're nervous, and tight.
I've given birth three times vaginally, with three episiotomies...and I've never had anyone complain that I was too loose......and I DON'T do kegels, either.
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