Validity of womens posts on forums
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| Sat, 05-13-2006 - 6:52pm |
Ladies, I would like your opinion on the validity of posts on this web site and on othe sites that have forums for women to post their thoughts. I believe that many if not most of the posts are made up by men who obtain seek to obtain gratification from posting as women or are seeking to obtain responses to their posts. What's ironic in this case, is that many of the replies are also probably from men.
I would be most interested in the women on this board, and just women, would let me know their opinions. And do you like to see posts by men (when they do post as men) describing such things as their sexual fantasies or masturbation practices? I would think not. As a recent commercial for deodorant showing a woman dancing in a club states, "A woman working up a sweat is just plain sexy; sorry guys, but you working up a sweat is just ugly"
In particular could you give me your opinions about the valdity of the "women's" contributions to the following web sites; do you believe these are actual posts from women. I just think they are way to explict to be genuine. I would like to included a few brief excerts to illustrate my point, but I'm sure they would be removed. Thanks!
"I'd let the flute just lay under my bed after that, and let my cum dry, so that I could flake off the stuff after."
"After that, I attach the tongue part to the vibe and let it sit on my clit until I feel that tingly feeling and all of a sudden, the juices squirt out like crazy all over the place. I can do it over and over again until I reach climax. This is the only way I can get off now is by squirting....
"OH...MY...GOD! I love this thing. I got mine today and I have never ever climaxed as hard and as many times as I did with this. Before today I had never had a female ejaculation, but since receiving my rabbit this afternoon I've ejaculated twice. This is definitely my new best friend and the best sex toy that I've ever used. I've been to bed with it 4 times today already and I'm not done yet. I would recommend this to anybody and everybody."
..."loved this toy. Yes, it is very large, but with a lot of good lube, oh my god, this is amazing. I love to sit in front of a mirror, and...."
"It drives me to hours of massive screaming multiple orgasms, the most intense I've ever had. I'm incredibly more uninhibited solo but I have never ever come so deep, so erotic and so deliciously out of control. I use a mirror so I can see myself sweating, writhing and humping when I come."
"I have never had cum running down my legs the mattress was soaked and I never even had this monster in my......"

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Jason, why do you find it so hard to believe women post on these boards and other sites?
Hi Jason,
Good to see you back. I see that you still can't believe that women have sexual desires, opinions, fantasies, and wants and needs just like men do at times. I'm a guy. That's clear enough in my profile. I have no doubt that 99.9% of the women that post here are, in fact, women. Yeah, you'll get the odd post that makes you wonder about the gender of the poster, but I think that you'll find that the vast majority of women posters on this website are women. After-all, this is an internet site aimed at women and the sex discussion boards are only a very small part of a larger women-orientated collection of websites and forums. Why wouldn't they be women?
As for the other sites that you mentioned and quoted from. I can't vouch for them. And why wouldn't you think that women could describe some very graphic things? Why is that only something that a man would do? You must have either lived a short life so far or a sheltered one if you do not think that a woman could be graphic about sexual activity especially if it's comments made in an "anonymous" internet forum. Yeah, traditionally women don't talk so graphically about these things. They're meant to be polite, little fluffy bunnies that say "Yessir" and "No sir" and don't dare to express any opinions or part of their sexuality or ever use dirty words. I think in the last few decades that has changed more than ever and the internet provides a safe public outlet. But then again, what happens between friends, partners and behind closed doors for probably thousands of years would clearly show you that Yes, women talk about sex and they are often very graphic about it. You should meet some of the women that I know. You would have no doubts that women can be graphic about sexual activity after 15 minutes spent talking to them.
One last thing. What does it all really matter? Either you beleive that the people that posted this stuff are women, or you don't. Why waste all this time trawling internet sites and copying quotes in an effort to get an opinion from the very people that you suspect are men anyway? Turn the computer off, Jason. Go out, find and talk to some real women. You'd find enough of them to make you realise that women do think and talk about and desire these things. Get out there and have a real life for a change. When you start with theories and worrying about stuff like this it's a sure sign that you are spending TOO much time in cyberspace.
I've read the reviews of sex toys and I still don't know why you think men write them posing as women and why you think the more explicit posts are posted by men, not women.
I'm trying to get an idea of why you're thinking along those lines.
Jason, I think you have a "madonna complex"......you think women can't be sexual, think sexually, enjoy sex, and speak explicitly about it. I can't speak to the other "forums" you quoted.....because I don't read them. Until I checked, I didn't even realize that the-clitoris.com HAD a forum. That site (excepting maybe the forums) is NOT "explicit", it's factual, and discusses the physiology of women's bodies. It's very possible that men (doctors and scientists) contributed to the information contained there. The other things that you quote sound like some of the sleazy romance novels....that sell like hotcakes....so I guess many women like them. Who cares who writes them....women buy them. Men have their porn, they're more visual, women have the written word, because they respond more to that than to pictures.
The majority of the posters on iVillage are women. The majority of them do NOT get explicit, they're mostly looking for ideas and opinions on sexual or relationship problems. There are some men who post here, too......and why not? Men's opinions count as much as women's opinions do. How do we know you're a man? Does it make any difference at all to anyone? Nope. If some guys get their jollies posting as women, who cares.....posts that are too explict, or too detailed or too "fantasy" are usually ignored anyway.
A more important question is WHY do you care Jason? As Westridge said, maybe you spend too much time reading this stuff, and not enough time living your life.
"and the internet provides a safe public outlet"
I agree, this is the very reason one would think women WOULD be graphic even if they normally wouldn't be in "real life". The fact that this is the internet and it gives people a safe feeling of anonymity, they often find it easier to be more open, honest and graphic. To me, that only indicates that they really are women, not a sign that it's a man posing as a woman.
Personally, I too find it easier to be more open... half the stuff I talk about on here I probably wouldn't talk about in "real life" to anyone else except my fiance.
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Jason -
Have you considered the possibility that you are a woman, posting as a male? Perhaps you are really Jane, a woman uncomfortable with all things sexual who would never in a million years consider using sex toys or allowing ejaculate to dry on your legs overnight. Perhaps you are so convinced that your thoughts are "right" thoughts, that you assume that no other woman could possibly feel otherwise. Perhaps you feel that by posting as a male you may be able to trick some of these women into realizing the shamefullness of their posts. Perhaps?
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Yes, I believe they're real comments. Women are every bit as sexual and graphic as men are, if not moreso, in a comfortable situation. As a woman, I can assure you of that.
It's just seems that, as a man, you have an idea of female sexuality as being much more demure and restrained than is the reality. Take Westie's advice and get out there and talk with some REAL women. You'll discover the truth for yourself.
If a woman can enjoy anonymity in the process of disclosure, than she is much more likely to express her true opinions, feelings and a emotions about her sexuality. And if that's what she's REALLY experiencing, than why not tell it like it is?
Yes, I'm sure that there are some men posing as women who get off on posting explicit comments on boards like these, but many of us have been here a long time, so those posts are pretty easy to spot and then ignore or report. In the end though, who cares?
Edited 5/15/2006 6:14 pm ET by katmandoo2001
AS a FEMALE, I have no validity on the websit posts you wrote and what does it matter?
As to your questions about female fantasies and masturbtion: AS a female, I find masturbation a wonderful event that every female should experience at least one year out of her life. If she likes it, then may she continue it forever and just because a man is in her life doesn't mean she has to stop self-pleasure; and if she doesn't like it, at least she can say she tried it and it wasn't for her. Masturbation is how I discovered orgasms (something not learned in my 17 yr marriage).
Fantasies, this female doesn't have much on this because I can't fantasize during sex (too much enjoyment going on for my mind to "think"), however if I see an attactive man out and about, then my mind does wander to touching his body.
Now have you truly read what some of us females write about the sensations of having a penis inside us. How can a man ever know that feeling? Yes, if he's into anal sex with another man then I'm sure he knows the feeling of being 'stuffed', however, is the butt truly a vagina?
Then again what does it matter. I am on these sites because I enjoy sex, I enjoy talking about sex, I enjoying hearing/reading others' enjoyment of sex. I enjoy sharing information, both helpful and silly. I come here because these topics interest me. By the way, I also walk into sex shops by myself, with my girlfriends and even with coworkers. I buy magazines there, dildos, and candies too! Now if there are men here impersonating females, who cares? Now, how many males impressonating females are on the Mommy & Me message boards?
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