vanilla talk and obedience training?
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vanilla talk and obedience training?
| Fri, 12-12-2008 - 9:29pm |
I've been friends with benefits with this guy for 6 years now. He's 42 and I'm 33.
| Fri, 12-12-2008 - 9:29pm |
I've been friends with benefits with this guy for 6 years now. He's 42 and I'm 33.
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If BDSM is not something that you're interested in exploring with him, you should let him know that.
Edited 12/12/2008 10:18 pm ET by barrister_returns
what is DW?
Be careful about what you read about BDSM out there on the web.
I don't like it when people use abbreviations ASSUMING OTHERS know what they stand for.
Mrs P
"Vanilla" is BLAND!
I definitely agree with you about not believing everything you read about BDSM on the Internet. Every BDSM relationship is different. When I tell people that I'm a collared sub they assume that I stay naked and chained all day and meet my Master at the front door on my knees. They also assume that I follow meekly behind Him everywhere W/we go and my answer to His every question is, "Yes, Master." That is what I call Fantasyland. And I'm selling tickets!
I am a little closer to the fantasy than some subs, since I'm not working right now and W/we don't have children, so W/we can indulge a bit more than other BDSM couples do. W/we are 24/7, I call Him "Master" instead of His first name, W/we do use a leash (my hair), etc. But I still don't spend my days naked and chained. Even those of U/us who are 24/7 lifestylers still have to live in the real world and have real world responsibilities.
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