Very Importan questions

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Very Importan questions
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Wed, 04-20-2005 - 4:21pm

Hello everyone,

Im new here and have a simple question.

Do all guys watch porno on the internet? I know in guys its more common, im just wondering if your husbands, fiances, etc watch porno pictures or videos online when "we" arent around.

If so how do you feel about it?

Thanks for all the input :)



 

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 4:42pm

Hi Delfi_d and welcome to the board.


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Registered: 12-21-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 4:53pm

Thank you :)

He watches porn once in a while I guess, whenever he is on the pc. He is not obsessed and we have a great sex relationship. Sometimes he tells me that thanks to those sites he learns new things which benefit the two of us. Im trying to get used to it, its hard because I am not comfortable AT ALL with porno. So I was wondering if I had to worry about him watching it.



 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 5:28pm

I agree with Tish. My DH has never used porn so it's not a given that all men will.

And it's certainly not necessary to have a great sex life either, so I'm personally a little suspicious when men use that excuse that it's to "get some ideas." LOL! My DH already had those "ideas" without ever looking at porn!




Edited 4/20/2005 5:36 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 8:18pm

I watch some on the internet. Sometimes just for some entertainment to pass the time, sometimes for material for masturbation. My partner knows that I do.

She was a little wary of what I was doing at first, but we've actually browsed some of it together once or twice and I don't particularly hide it from her - mind you, I tend to do it in private when she's not around anyway. I'd feel a bit funny watching porn of any kind or masturbating with or without porn with her just sitting in the next room watching her favourite soap opera!

She accidentally brought some video clips up in the media player when she did a mpeg search for music once and since then she asked me to be a bit more careful of what I had stored on the computer. She wasn't upset, just told me with a "Busted you!" kinda grin on her face. Now I tend to delete anything and clear caches after I've browsed just on the off-chance that even happens again.

She's fine with the sort of thing that I view now that she knows that it's pretty ordinary material and that my tastes aren't too far out there. We have a few porn magazines around like Penthouse and she reads them more than I do, and will even occasionally ask me to buy a new one. So she's pretty relaxed about porn in general. So overall, she's aware of me using internet porn and is OK with it.

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Registered: 04-17-2005
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 9:17pm

Hey!
I'm new here too! Anyways, yeah, my guy does it too. But I really think it's funny, it's just something they all do. And unless it's an obsession, it really isn't very harmful. I just laugh at my guy and call him a perv! don't stress about it!

from, Panda

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Registered: 10-18-2003
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 9:36pm
Dh has about 10,000 images cataloged ... lol. That was, of course, when he wasn't sexually active (because he wasn't in a relationship). Since we've been dating, he's added only a scant few images.


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Registered: 10-18-2001
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 5:21am

>>Dh has about 10,000 images cataloged<<

Now that's dedication! Good effort!

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 10:48am

No, I rent it from the internet but I wouldn't come close to internet porn for a second. The sites will infect your computer with spyware, which then becomes a ton of spam delivered to your mailbox and for what, something in small window on your computer screen?

Don't get me wrong, i like porn, it's a good buzz, but renting it online is much better.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 7:11pm
DH won't buy porno..I know this sounds strange, but I asked him if we could buy it together to watch together and he said "no." He's not into it.
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Registered: 10-18-2003
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 7:33pm
Being single, and celibate, in your late 20s/early 30s, leaves lots of time on your hands. (err, IN your hands? lol)


Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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