VIBRATORS AND DIDOS
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VIBRATORS AND DIDOS
| Wed, 04-12-2006 - 6:41pm |
I may sound nieve but what is the best way to use didos and vibrators to get the most pleasure I just bought my first vibrator and Dildo Now I need to know how do I make the most out of it.. I am married but I am embarrased to go hog wild the first time we use them Please give me any advice that would be useful. THanks

What's wrong with going "hog wild" the first time you use them? I say, go for it and try everything. That's the only way you'll figure out what you like and what you don't.
But as Tish pointed out, experimenting alone will give you some idea of how to use your new toys.
IMO, it's totally based upon your needs (&/or his wants). When I was married he wouldn't touch the dildo, so the only way I've enjoyed one was solo and I used solely when my body was screaming to be "filled".
As a female, I would love to hand it over to a man and let him "play" with me, and that includes hog wild, so be it! Enjoy!
Definitely see if he will help you. I LOVE using toys on my wife. My favorite thing! Do I feel threatened? No. It's not a replacement, it's an enhancement and it makes her feel good. So good, she soaks the sheets! Have to put down towels or diaper changing pads to keep the sheets dry ;-).
The other replies offered very sage advice. Take them up on it and explore a little on your own. Find out what feels good to you. Once you figure out what you like, have him help. Guide him where it feels good. Educate him like you are the mature schoolteacher and he is the little boy needing instruction. It makes for a great little role play and you both get great pleasure from it!
Good luck!
CM,
Does your husband know you've bought new toys? If not, are you
I'm another guy that LOVES using a vibrator on his wife. I'm feeling all warm and fuzzy right now because only a couple of nights ago we used it and it was awesome. We've got a "rabbit" vibrator that has the rotating shaft and the "bunny ears" that stimulate her clit - and Boy, does she love those bunny ears! She said her head just about exploded when she came and I believe her. The exciting part about it was just how turned on she got - so I say "go hog wild"! LOL!
It's exactly what it says on the box - a "toy". It's not a replacement for your husband at all. Just something to have some fun with. If it's shaped right you might be able to hold it and sandwich it between your clitoris and your husband as he penetrates you during intercourse. I gurantee that if he goes for that, he will enjoy it :-)