To Video tape of not?

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Registered: 01-15-2008
To Video tape of not?
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Tue, 01-15-2008 - 1:18pm
Ok, so Valentine's Day is coming up which also happens to be mine and my husbands 2 year wedding anniversary.
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Tue, 01-15-2008 - 4:30pm

I think it's a great idea.

Is there a location where the camera can be hidden? It does not have to be in the bedroom. For example, if you have a shelf with cookbooks in the kitchen maybe you could hide it among them. Ask him to start the dishes; you go upstairs and change into something sexy; then come back down and tell him that he can have you for dessert ;)

Do a test taping and check lighting and camera angles. Since you don't want him to be aware of the camera, you won't be able to stop and make camera adjustments.

Let us know how it works. I wish my DW would come up with these kind of things.

Good Luck
Paul

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Registered: 12-03-2007
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 4:56pm

That's is a so totally hot idea.
It's gonna be a tough one to pull off though. No guarantee the camera is going to record what you want it to "or what you don't want it to." Couples who do this a lot have remote controlled cameras "or Web cams" and monitors to watch what the camera is recording.

Have you considered Boudoir photography? There are lots of photo studios that specialize in this type of intimate "nekkid" photography. They will do your hair, mails, body makeup, and even sexy outfits or lingerie if you like.

My GF gave me a nice 30" x 40" print in a gold lief frame that makes my heart palpitate every time I see it. It looks like an oil painting, very lush.
It's in my private study and I can usually stay in there about half an hour before this image drives me out looking for her... "I wonder if that was her intent to begin with." Hmmmmm....

The nice thing is that you have total control of the image he gets.

Don't give up on the video idea though :D

Good Luck
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 5:35pm

Welcome to the board, devonjoseph.

I think that sounds like a great idea! The others have given you some great advice, and I agree that you should check out the angle and lighting beforehand.

If you're going to use the bedroom, perhaps you could having in the closet with a slightly open door, or peering through the curtains?

Another thing you could try is making a video tape of just yourself to give him. You could do a striptease, masturbate or just sexy play. Doing it that way, you can make as many cuts as you would like until you get it just right.

Good luck -- and let us know how it goes.





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Registered: 12-07-2007
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 4:43pm
Hi there! I have a shy modest hubby. He is to self conscious to be taped but he had mentioned not so long ago that he would like a video of me in private with my toys. He said he could watch that much easier then watching himself. (He goes on alot of business trips and would love to have a video to take along :oP). It would be easier to make sure the entire video had something on it. You could talk dirty to him as well on it. Have fun, A happy V day and a Happy Anniversery..keep that flame burnin.
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Registered: 01-15-2008
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 9:48am
Thanks for the email.