virgin at 36?

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Registered: 07-18-2006
virgin at 36?
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Sat, 10-21-2006 - 1:30pm
Hi Everyone...
I just started seeing this guy a couple of weeks ago.. Last night we went out. We ended up at his house at the end of the evening. Because it was really late and I live over an hour away, I stayed over. I started off sleeping on the couch...I was tossing and turning and the damn chime clock was keeping me awake. Anyway, long story short I ended up in his bed. We didn't have sex but just messed around. During the night, he told me he was a virgin.. I do believe him but am just floored! He is 36 almost 37. I don't know what to think. In some ways, this is kind of a turn off for me. I don't want a guy who has slept around alot but this kind of freaks me out a little.
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Registered: 10-21-2006
Sat, 10-21-2006 - 2:53pm
40 year old virgin. :/
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Sat, 10-21-2006 - 5:17pm

I don't get it. The guy isn't a complete "innocent" since the two of you "messed around" while you were in his bed. Did you by any chance ask WHY he's still a virgin? I think most women would have, just as a man would have.

If you continue seeing him, just think, you can train him in the way that YOU like, lol

Seriously, unless he's got some religious or quirky mental hangups, what's the difference?

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Registered: 04-27-2006
Sat, 10-28-2006 - 12:24pm
It may work out perfectly fine. I was 48 the first time I became involved with a woman who is a friend of mine and we actually had intercourse for the first time after I turned 49 later that year. It did kind of make her feel strange when she asked if I had ever been with a woman before when we started fooling around on my couch and we started taking off clothes. We did step back for awhile because she and her husband had been divorced for just 5 months at the time. But when I moved to to the apartment complex she lives in, we picked it up again and that is when we had intercourse for the first time and it and all the subsequent times we made love were very nice. We have since moved on from it and are no longer sexually involved, but we are still friends. It will always be special for both of us, the fact that I lost my virginity to a good friend. Don't mind that it took that long, I figured it would happen and we are both glad it did. We don't regret that we did it at all. It was very nice and the sex, the lovemaking, intercourse, foreplay, oral everything was wonderful. Take your time and it will be fine.