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virgin at 36?
| Sat, 10-21-2006 - 1:30pm |
Hi Everyone...
I just started seeing this guy a couple of weeks ago.. Last night we went out. We ended up at his house at the end of the evening. Because it was really late and I live over an hour away, I stayed over. I started off sleeping on the couch...I was tossing and turning and the damn chime clock was keeping me awake. Anyway, long story short I ended up in his bed. We didn't have sex but just messed around. During the night, he told me he was a virgin.. I do believe him but am just floored! He is 36 almost 37. I don't know what to think. In some ways, this is kind of a turn off for me. I don't want a guy who has slept around alot but this kind of freaks me out a little.
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I just started seeing this guy a couple of weeks ago.. Last night we went out. We ended up at his house at the end of the evening. Because it was really late and I live over an hour away, I stayed over. I started off sleeping on the couch...I was tossing and turning and the damn chime clock was keeping me awake. Anyway, long story short I ended up in his bed. We didn't have sex but just messed around. During the night, he told me he was a virgin.. I do believe him but am just floored! He is 36 almost 37. I don't know what to think. In some ways, this is kind of a turn off for me. I don't want a guy who has slept around alot but this kind of freaks me out a little.
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I don't get it. The guy isn't a complete "innocent" since the two of you "messed around" while you were in his bed. Did you by any chance ask WHY he's still a virgin? I think most women would have, just as a man would have.
If you continue seeing him, just think, you can train him in the way that YOU like, lol
Seriously, unless he's got some religious or quirky mental hangups, what's the difference?