Virginity?

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Registered: 12-31-1969
Virginity?
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 7:32pm
Hi

I could do with some advice again please,i discussed this in the past,sorry nothing has changed and so feel i could do with more ideas. basically the problem is i havent had sex in oover 14 yrs! its kind of become a way of living in an unhappy way, tend to be quite withdrawn, get a bit lost for words especially in female company. I am very attracted to women and have all the normal desires,have a few female friends dont see them very often though, i think that im basically OK have quite a good sense of humour and i can open up when iget to know someone. I have had a problem with low grade depression for many years i can function go through the daily motions, but feel sad most of the time.

Recently have been feeling better have been have some coundselling has helped, i was reading an article about sexual surrogacy its where you work under medical supervision with a sex partner,who will help you to discover and develop sexual and intimacy skills it can be very successful form of therapy,quite expensive though. I so much like to experience sex and intimacy again but would like it to be special, think it could be very healing an benefical.

Would be interested to hear any views

Thanks Shaun

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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 8:38pm
Hi Shaun. I think using a sexual surrogate is something to consider. IF you think that it could help boost your confidence enough to approach a woman, then it could be the answer. Why not discuss it with your therapist?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 9:21pm
Hi Shaun, Glad you stopped by again.

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