visiting and contributing to porn sites

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Registered: 07-16-2003
visiting and contributing to porn sites
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Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:02pm

Topic came from this thread below about posting nude pictures online.

Further from my conversation with cl-issytish.

To those of us who visit and maybe even contribute to amateur porn web sites. Do you, like me, keep the fact secret from fiends and relatives, or, like cl-issytish, do you freely discuss it?

I have in the past posted erotic pictures on web sites but whenever the subject or web porn comes up with friends I never admit to even visiting such sites, neither do they.

Not that I am ashamed of what i am doing, it's just that my experience is that we would be scorned for doing so.

Any thoughts

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Fi

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:42pm

Thanks, put the CL on the spot here.


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Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:49pm

Hope you don't think I was critisizing or judging. As I said i admire your openess.

I had always assumed all people were like me and hid some facts about our lives. It was refreshing to get a different perspective and I was wondering how others felt.

Don't view myself as a porn freek either but hubby and I do enjoy looking at other people.

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Fi

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Thu, 08-25-2005 - 7:05pm

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Thu, 08-25-2005 - 7:15pm

I'm a guy, and I probably look at porn sites a couple or three times a week. Sometimes I'll just browse to pass the time, other times I'll do it to get aroused and use it to masturbate with. I've never contributed to a porn site although I do find the idea of posting pictures of my partner and I together quite intriguing. I think that I'd get a bit of a thrill from doing it but haven't convinced either myself or my partner that we really want to do it.

Do I discuss using porn sites freely with friends? Yes and no. I don't raise the subject and go around telling everyone about it, but if it comes up in conversation and is appropriate I'll happily admit to veiwing porn without talking about messy details. Would I admit that I/we had posted pictures? No, I don't think that I would.

If I saw someone that I know on a porn site? It depends on who it was and how close the friendship was with them. I guess if it was a close friend, then Yes, I'd tell them. Given my views on it, I'd probably think that it was pretty cool actually - although I'm sure that I'd give them a good natured ribbing about it. If it was family member or acquaintance, I don't think that I'd say anything. It could create tension where there is no reason for it. I definitely agree that society as a whole frowns upon it. In polite company, anyway. I guess that's why its so popular on the internet - an anonymous outlet for those desires. And even if it isn't anonymous and you are readily identifiable from your photos, the odds are reasonably good that no-one you know will ever see your photos.

Edited to add:
Just re-read the other thread: Would I be happy to admit that I view porn as a consequence of telling a person that I'd just seen them nekked on the 'net? Yeah. No problem with that side of it. Heck, if they've posted the pictures, I'm sure that they'll be able to handle the fact that I browse the stuff! :-)

Edited 8/25/2005 7:24 pm ET ET by westridge2001




Edited 8/25/2005 7:24 pm ET ET by westridge2001
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Registered: 08-18-2005
Mon, 08-29-2005 - 11:16pm
i would watch or look at porn but not participate in it. i wouldn't want any of my relatives or friends to see me in such a situation. it would be embarrassing for me. i have, however, had professional pictures taken (by a woman photographer), but they are for my boyfriend and not for anyone else to see. he keeps them hidden.
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Mon, 09-05-2005 - 10:22pm
what are some websites that dont sabotage ur computer w/ pop-ups or spyware junk? links please, so i dont have to type it in. thanks.
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Registered: 09-27-2004
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 10:40pm
We have put pics online but have always hiddien the face.
Sippy