The question? There was a guy that asked what is the most appealing thing about a penis in another discussion. This is an off-shoot of that. So,....
What physical attributes (e.g. appearance, colour, labia size, clitoris size, pubic hair, tightness, etc. etc. and anything else you can think of) do you find most appealing for a vulva/vagina?
Oh that. Hell, I don't remember. Oh, I do remember that it sometimes felt very nice and warm and wet when it was wrapped around my penis, but that was a long time ago. One thing that I've seen in porn pictures and videos is that for some women when they become aroused that their clitoris will become erect and visible, and that's pretty stimulating. I never saw it happen with any of the women I was with, but, if I had, that would have been something special.
OK Kat, you asked for it. First off Mutt gave a very good shot at this question. (Standing ovation with BIC in hand.)
I've seen quite a few vulvas in my lifetime and I absolutely LOVE it when a woman opens her legs wide and lets me see inside with a grin on her face. My first gf did this for me and it drove me nuts - still does. Ladies are so different down there and ALL are lovely - like another guy posted here they are very flower-like. I absolutely adore the outer lips and the lovely pink inner lips too. I like the inner lips long enough to stick out beyond the outer ones - what I call an "outie". Very Georgia O'Keefe petal like and very sexy to me. I like a clitoris large enough that I can find it and play with until it's hard as a rock and she gets dripping wet until the insides of her thighs are soaked. And I love the feeling of sticking my toungue into her vagina and licking up her juices. I love playing with her until she's begging me to come inside and then I love plunging all the way in like jumping into a pool all at once. And feeling her softness and wetness and the pulsing of her vagina walls hugging my thick penis as we kiss as soulfully as is possible. How's that?
Ladies I think you are wrong to assume that men have negative connotations related to the vulva. So OK, we all love pu$$y jokes, but thats just having fun, because they facilitate male bonding like a couple of drinks.
OK at least speaking for myself, I think everything about the vulva is endearing. Like someone said, it is like a flower. I especially like DW's vulva for its THICK lips and mons veneris, I love her soft pink inner labia, I love her clit that goes all cheeky when she is aroused, I just love her smell and taste - I can spend a whole night licking and savouring her vulva. And yes, the grasp, the soft but firm, loving but frantic caress of her grasp - is there ANYTHING about the vulva that one can find not appealing ?
I assure you, I am saying this HONESTLY. In my mind I can't imagine a man not worshipping the vulva (unless he is gay).
Even before arousal, there's an appeal. That area just says "female"!
The most appealing thing is how it changes during arousal. I love how the vaginal lips expand and protrude. It reminds me of a flower in bloom. I also love the scent. It's very intimate when she lets me get that close. And, I like to watch my semen leak out after intercourse. For the rest of the day, she will be carrying a part of me inside of her body. How much more intimate can you get than that.
Thanks West. I couldn't be more specific in my title because you're only allowed so much space however, the question is pretty self explanatory....I thought.
And regarding the tongue in cheek retorts you mentioned. Well, you'll see those on the penis-related threads from the guys, as well.
Okay this comment "that area just says "female" is similar to what my DH's response was. He didn't even mention how it felt to him to be inside, he focused on what it means to be allowed to get that close to a part that is so intimate to a woman.
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The question? There was a guy that asked what is the most appealing thing about a penis in another discussion. This is an off-shoot of that. So,....
What physical attributes (e.g. appearance, colour, labia size, clitoris size, pubic hair, tightness, etc. etc. and anything else you can think of) do you find most appealing for a vulva/vagina?
OK Kat, you asked for it. First off Mutt gave a very good shot at this question. (Standing ovation with BIC in hand.)
I've seen quite a few vulvas in my lifetime and I absolutely LOVE it when a woman opens her legs wide and lets me see inside with a grin on her face. My first gf did this for me and it drove me nuts - still does. Ladies are so different down there and ALL are lovely - like another guy posted here they are very flower-like. I absolutely adore the outer lips and the lovely pink inner lips too. I like the inner lips long enough to stick out beyond the outer ones - what I call an "outie". Very Georgia O'Keefe petal like and very sexy to me. I like a clitoris large enough that I can find it and play with until it's hard as a rock and she gets dripping wet until the insides of her thighs are soaked. And I love the feeling of sticking my toungue into her vagina and licking up her juices. I love playing with her until she's begging me to come inside and then I love plunging all the way in like jumping into a pool all at once. And feeling her softness and wetness and the pulsing of her vagina walls hugging my thick penis as we kiss as soulfully as is possible. How's that?
>> (Standing ovation with BIC in hand.)<<
They say that the Penis mightier than the sword....
Ladies I think you are wrong to assume that men have negative connotations related to the vulva. So OK, we all love pu$$y jokes, but thats just having fun, because they facilitate male bonding like a couple of drinks.
OK at least speaking for myself, I think everything about the vulva is endearing. Like someone said, it is like a flower. I especially like DW's vulva for its THICK lips and mons veneris, I love her soft pink inner labia, I love her clit that goes all cheeky when she is aroused, I just love her smell and taste - I can spend a whole night licking and savouring her vulva. And yes, the grasp, the soft but firm, loving but frantic caress of her grasp - is there ANYTHING about the vulva that one can find not appealing ?
I assure you, I am saying this HONESTLY. In my mind I can't imagine a man not worshipping the vulva (unless he is gay).
Even before arousal, there's an appeal. That area just says "female"!
The most appealing thing is how it changes during arousal. I love how the vaginal lips expand and protrude. It reminds me of a flower in bloom. I also love the scent. It's very intimate when she lets me get that close. And, I like to watch my semen leak out after intercourse. For the rest of the day, she will be carrying a part of me inside of her body. How much more intimate can you get than that.
Thanks West. I couldn't be more specific in my title because you're only allowed so much space however, the question is pretty self explanatory....I thought.
And regarding the tongue in cheek retorts you mentioned. Well, you'll see those on the penis-related threads from the guys, as well.
He didn't even mention how it felt to him to be inside, he focused on what it means to be allowed to get that close to a part that is so intimate to a woman.
Edited 7/11/2005 10:54 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
tee hee DH said he could pick mine out in a line-up. ;-)
Seriously though, DH says my vagina/vulva is like heaven on earth....like a thousand little fingers touching his penis.
Edited 7/11/2005 12:26 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
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