Vulvas/vaginas....what's most appealing?

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Vulvas/vaginas....what's most appealing?
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Sun, 07-10-2005 - 8:06pm
Okay, guys, let's hear YOUR comments.

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Wed, 07-13-2005 - 6:42pm

Kat,
The subject is NOT about how men feel about women. It is about how men feel about a specific physical part of a woman - not women as a whole. And just because there is a word for the hatred of women, but no word for a hatred of men does not mean one is more prevalent than the other.

It's interestnig that just because I wish to clarify your statement, you think I am taking it personally. If I don't agree with something you say, I will state it. There is a difference between taking something personally and making a clarification of a statement made.

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Wed, 07-13-2005 - 7:17pm

Sorry but many men express their feelings about women, as a whole, by their attitudes, comments and actions concerning their bodies. But I apologize if my comment offended you personally and please, continue to disagree with me whenever necessary.

However, we'll have to agree to disagree on our opinions regarding the number of men who dislike women and the fact that because there isn't a word to describe male hatred as being evidence of a prevalence of male hatred toward women. Historically, that's pretty evident.




Edited 7/13/2005 7:25 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 07-13-2005 - 7:49pm
The word for male hatred is misandry. So since there are words for hatred of both sexes, there is equality when it comes to dislike of one sex towards the other. It's interesting that you can't admit that.
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Wed, 07-13-2005 - 10:24pm

Thank you for researching that. That's certainly a new word for me, as I'm sure it is for most people.

And I believe I already did acknowledge that there can be a dislike for the opposite sex from both men and women. How much acknowledgement did you need? However, I've already said that that I disagree with your estimate on the male side. And I still do. I find it interesting that you can't accept a difference of opinion.




Edited 7/13/2005 10:26 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Sat, 07-16-2005 - 6:54pm

Gotta admit, I'm still a tad old fashioned...

...for the most appealing thing about that part of the woman, like any part, is the attitude/personality that comes with it. To each his own...

 

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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 1:10am

Rice,
I have no issue opening myself for any man that I choose to be with. And given the right stimulation, I may even open up for a photo, but my man would have to be very (and I mean very special) to get me to that!
If a woman is comfortable with herself and trusts the person she's with then opening herself should be no problem. Watching his head down there while enjoying the sensations that he is creating; feeling his fingers rub/carress my clit and vagina; even watching him watching it go/in out - all of it wouldn't be possible unless I opened myself to him.

Of course, sometimes, I enjoy not moving an inch in order to make him work (really hard, sometimes) to get me undressed so that I can open wide! :)

And Mutt, my man agrees with your words, verbatim!

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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 11:55am

i love it with just the slit no labia sticking out

as my friends say no meat curtains

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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 3:04pm

Hi katmandoo2001:

The MOST appealing (vulva/vagina) is the woman who belongs too it!

Mac
URBAN MYTH(?) a female in the 21st century thinks a male is TOO much trouble!

 

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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 6:23pm

Thanks Mac. I agree. Our parts are secondary to our personality and what you don't see. But I just had to do the counterpoint to Muttley's penis appeal thread. LOL!

And IMO, a man makes a woman's life more joyful...whether in the 10th or 21st century. But is having one in your life necessary for happiness? No, as many women will attest.

Thanks for you response.

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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 8:51pm

i think it was katharine hepburn who said something to the effect that men & women should not live together but they shud visit often.

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