wanted my wife to be dominant in bed

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Registered: 04-21-2005
wanted my wife to be dominant in bed
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Thu, 04-21-2005 - 3:50pm

I've recently married for the first time and I want my wife to be dominant in bed. Not all the time as a long term thing but every now and then. we used to play around sometimes (we've been together for 5 yrs b-4 we got married) she would tie my wrists together with her stockings after a formal type of party then stradle my chest and get very playfull. She would make me submit to her every whim including making me kiss her legs ankles and feet as well as her crotch. It drove me wild to say the least then, we would have great sex she would untie me b-4 sex. I am a true leg man so I loved to kiss her lower parts yes including her feet. Lately sex is the same old thing I've even asked her to tie me up and she seemed so so about it she did but not with the dominant side she has. I've spoken to her about it and she said she would but only if I would be willing to submit myself as her slave for the entire next day. Well that blew me away and then some. I asked her what my slave role would be that day and she explained it in detail. It'll be a normal day in every aspect but I must do everything she says when she says it and how she wants it done. This includes shopping, helping her clean around the house, and anytime she wants me to kiss any part of her body to do so untill she tells me to stop. Well I'm sure it'll work out fine as I do all these things shopping, house cleanning, etc. Then she told me to get on my knees and kiss her knees down to the tops of her shoes which I did gladly, she took me into the bedroom and layed out the stockings she would wear to the movies that night asked me to pick out a pair of shoes for her and warned me to be prepared for what would follow..

Cant wait

keep you posted

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 3:58pm
Well, sounds like you got what you were asking for! Have fun!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 5:27pm
Yes, sounds like fun.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 7:06pm
I tried being submissive in bed w/ DH b/c I'm always the dominant(don't think I spelt it right, don't care..I'm now a licensed CNA, I'm too happy to care) one..Yeah, didn't work..I have to have the control..I like watching him dance when I say dance..
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 7:10pm

First, congrats on your CNA certification.

And secondly, I'm more of the dominant personality in my marriage, as well, but we tend to take turns in the bedroom.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 9:42pm
I can't let it go in the bedroom..I love being in the middle of sex and say, "Eat me, now!" and watch him scramble to do my bidding..Ooo...*shivers in delight* I tried to do the submissive thing and let him have the turn, but when he tied me up, I panicked...And he's not really into issuing demands like I am..He's soft and gentle..hehe..I've toned down on the domination play b/c the last time I managed to split his lip and chip his tooth.. :(