wants sex?

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wants sex?
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Fri, 08-05-2005 - 10:30am
if a guy focuses on crotch area while checking out ur body, is he fantasizing having sex with you? or just perverted?

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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 1:48pm

tee hee .... I wasn't surpised that some men "look" at women's crotches, I was surprised when indiancouple said that he further went on to imagine what it looked, smelled and tasted like. ;-) I just didn't think it went that far....tee hee

Personally, I really don't see the purpose of checking out a man's package because I'm wise enough to know that there are showers and there are growers. ;-) ....and of course...that size doesn't matter. tee hee

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cuteg345
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 2:25pm
The only time I would EVER notice a man's crotch, would be if there was an OBVIOUS bulge in his pants to draw my attention. Otherwise, you can't tell a thing about his "package" through pants.
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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 2:17am


I am sorry - I didn't mean to offend anyone. This being an anonymous board, I was just dropping my defences and being honest. I can honestly say that my ogling is not part of any deliberate ego boosting exercise or any sort of sexual politics. And I am careful not to bring a grain of aggressive behaviour into it. OK so I agree it is lascivious behaviour and if I am honest, I have to admit to realising that it is at the expense of the woman. But you must believe me when I say that I mean no harm and it is just harmless fun to pass the idle hour.

I believe women who say that they have no interest to ogle at men, they are probably made that way. Of course there are men strippers and women's hen parties and so on, but they are in a minority, and within this minority I suspect many of them put on the "ooooohs and aaaahs" for the political effect. On the other hand show me a man who says he has never ogled, and I will show you a liar.

And menswear don't afford any scope for ogling in the first place. The only thing that could be interesting would be a bulge in his crotch, but THAT would be an aggressive, ugly sight.

But I agree with you that maybe I was bragging just a bit too much, blame it on a testosterone rush, the "duh hormone".

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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 2:25am


I mean, you think you are in the absolute privacy of your bedroom and that nobody is looking when the place is teeming with fellas who go "hey guys come on over, she is at it now - nudge nudge ;) ;)" and "don't push, don't push, those who got the front row yesterday please go to the back row" etc etc.

Picture that !

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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 11:04am

"I believe women who say that they have no interest to ogle at men, they are probably made that way."

I don't know if you call it ogling, but women do check out men all of the time. I just think that the major difference is that a man will zoom in on just about any woman's "parts" so it goes without saying that they ogle more. I think that women, more or less, just take in the man as a whole, not the sum of his parts. If I see a man who I think is attractive and who carries himself a certain way, his "sexual" parts wouldn't concern me. "HE" would turn me on, not his derierre or package. tee hee So, unless a woman finds a man attractive, she just won't bother. So, if you put a bunch of attractive men inside a busy terminal, you'd probably see just as many women ogling as men. ;-)

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 6:20pm
ok, so i must admit i did check out his package first , but i didnt stare.... I doubled glanced and then smiled.... does that makeit right for him to stare? or is it that men cant help it once they start.... he seemed reallyyyy focused? im dying to know from a guys perspective -- waht he could be imagining???
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cuteg345
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 7:20pm

I agree. I'm not turned on by penises or butts, etc. If I don't like the face on a guy, then his penis or butt sure aren't going to do a thing for me either! LOL!

I always look at the face of the man FIRST and if I like what I see, then I might DISCREETLY sneak a glance at the rest. I would NEVER just ogle a man's body parts though.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cuteg345
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 7:21pm
I think you can guess, can't you?
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Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 7:53pm
i can, but sometimes u need to hear it to believe it.....lol
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Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 8:05am
He's thinking of what you look like w/o clothes. If it's shaved or not. Maybe even imagining himself touching or licking or penetrating. We're very visual creatures.My friend and I used to sit around and try to guess what kind of panties, if any, a woman had on.


Edited 8/11/2005 8:06 am ET ET by luvlickin

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