wants sex?

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Registered: 05-04-2005
wants sex?
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Fri, 08-05-2005 - 10:30am
if a guy focuses on crotch area while checking out ur body, is he fantasizing having sex with you? or just perverted?

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Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 8:15am
so hes a little perverrted?? that means he has no intentions of getting to know me??? just wants some???
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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 10:41am
Oddly enough, though, if I see an erect penis(porn), no matter who is donning it, I become aroused. Go figure. ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:13am
Not necessarily...men are visual and sexual by nature. I'd say the most you can think is that he is attracted to you. A pervert?...maybe, maybe not. That's up to you to decide. if it made you uncomfortable then there is your answer.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:16am

Maybe you're projecting your DH's face on that body.

I have never become aroused by looking at body parts though. Not sure why. The man who owns that penis must be attractive to me.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:19am
I think his intentions are are pretty clear! If he wanted to get to know YOU, and not just your crotch, he would spend more time talking with you, learning who you are and not just focusing at your crotch. He's saying "I want sex."
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:21am
WOMEN are sexual by nature, Luv. We just express it in different ways and under different perimeters.
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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:37am
Kat, I can't understand why it's so hard for people to believe that women are SEXUAL AND yes....VISUAL.
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:47am

I understand what you're saying...because in real life that's how it is for me too. If I'm attracted to a man EVERYTHING on his body turns me on...even the hair on his arms and fingers(he doesn't even have to have an erection). tee hee I guess it's just that I associate erection with arousal....and arousal is catching. ;-)




Edited 8/11/2005 11:49 am ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 12:02pm
so if a guy looks at a girls privates like that, does it mean hes not a virgin???or there is no way to know for sure??cuz it shows expereince.....
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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 12:12pm

There's no way to know if he's a virgin or not just because he's ogling your crotch. For all you know he's never even seen one close up.

Who is this guy? How do you know him?

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )

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