wants sex?

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Registered: 05-04-2005
wants sex?
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Fri, 08-05-2005 - 10:30am
if a guy focuses on crotch area while checking out ur body, is he fantasizing having sex with you? or just perverted?

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Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 12:31pm
i dont really know him, ive seen him around a couple of times, once i caught him staring at me --- cuz i felt someone watching me , i turned around and he was watching- he said hi, i said hi back.... he must live around here-- since i see him a couple of times a month.... but it never goes past hello, or checking out my body.... is he interested or playing mind games... once he walked by and i was by my window, he made such intense eye contact and then smiled.....i dunno waht to think.....
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In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 3:17pm
The biggest "oglers" in the world are little boys with NO experience! They look but they don't have a clue yet.
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In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 3:18pm
How old are you, cuteg and how old is the guy?
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Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 3:39pm
iam 20 and he must be at least 25/26 maybe, but he looks me straight in the eyes as if he has lots of experience.... even if i glance away, he looks more with a more focused gaze... staright eye to eye... when a guy is inexperienced -- he doesnt lookinto ur eyes???
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 4:43pm

You might assume, based on his age, that he is sexually experienced, but there are plenty of older virgins out there so it's always best not to assume anything because there's a 50/50 chance you'll be wrong.

And just because he makes direct eye contact, with your eyes or your crotch, means nothing. I would think if he WAS experienced, sexually confident AND interested, he would have made a more definitive move on you by now!

As long as he's only looking, he's not really doing anything.

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Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 5:14pm
so hes DEFINITLY not interested??/ i kinda think so too, that if he was interested , he would make a move already, cuz this has been goin on for bout 6 months.........but i feel he might be interested........ what do u think??
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Registered: 06-19-2001
In reply to: cuteg345
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 5:33pm

"so hes DEFINITLY not interested??"

You will never know if you do not speak with him.

Maybe he's shy? Put an end to it and talk.

Osusguy
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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 5:19am

LOL

luv ya sense of humour

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Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 7:07am
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I agree...men aren't very inventive when it comes to tactfulness. They were never taught, or cared to learn.
There are some, ladies' men, but watch out, we're just better at fooling women into "thinking" we want to know you. LOL
Can't win for losing
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Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: cuteg345
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 7:17am
I agree with Kat, just talk to him. He may be shy, he may be a perv. He may be a shy perv.
Maybe he likes the way your jeans fit and is trying to see what kind they are so he can buy some for his wife. LOL He may be the man of your dreams.
If he makes eye contect with you, he's trying to get to know you.

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