Was able to have orgasms now can't

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Registered: 08-27-2007
Was able to have orgasms now can't
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Sat, 09-29-2007 - 4:14pm

My H and I had an okay sex life.

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Registered: 01-04-2006
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 4:54pm

Multi orgasmic would be having more than 1 orgasm.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 4:57pm

It's very possible it's psychological that you can't orgasm, orgasms do start

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Registered: 12-26-2004
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 10:20pm
Talk to a friend or doc about your guilt over the A.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 9:31am

It sounds like your mind is keeping you from having orgasms, and it is probably because of the affair. It may just take time for that to be behind you, or you might need to find a way to come to terms with having had the affair.

Multiple orgasms are those that happen within the same sex session, without a need to recharge. They can be from any type of stimulation. I think the best example is when the same activity is occurring, without a break, and you have more than one orgasm. I know that often during intercourse, I have 3 or more orgasms before hubby gets his -- but it has taken years for him to learn to control his erection. It's not likely to happen in just a few minutes of intercourse, and not all of the orgasms have the same intensity.