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| Tue, 08-21-2007 - 11:20pm |
Hello Everyone...I wanted to stop by and ask a question to see if theres anyone else that feels this or does this? Or does this mean something.
When I'm having sex, I imagine having sex with another woman. I love to watch porn, with two women having sex. It seems i'm always thinking about that while sex.
So please, is there anyone else that does that? I would love to hear want anyone has to say.
Thank you

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Welcome to the board i_gwennie.
I have heard other women mention this fantasy, and I think it's probably more common than we learn here. Did you have the same fantasies prior to seeing two women together in porn?
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I think while watching it on porn one night with my husband, I just came out and told him, I don't know if I could that. I mean going down on a woman. But I could let a woman do that to me. But when I watch porn now, I get horny with woman with bigger ones, I jusrt plain get really horny. When I told my husband that, he just said well I don't know, I think you could.
I also told him about being interested in woman. I just don't know if its just more then just a fantasy or something more.
Right now my husband and I are seperated. I left him, it wasn't that he left me because of that. Because he told me he could handle that. He could live with that. What he could really live with I really don't know.
I'm just really confused and really unsure of myself right now. I get all stressed out about it. He wants to get back together with me and something is stopping me. Is it this or that I love the freedom, or is it both. I still love him and care about him.
I know its really messed up right now.
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Gwennie....
I think most ppl are attracted to the same sex, just at different levels. There is not really a "normal" attraction, just whatever comes naturally just is what it is!
May I ask why you and your husband are separated?
I feel how you do, I have a boyfriend but I prefer girl on girl and always kind of had a thing for boobs. But I don't think I'm bisexual or anything. I've told my boyfriend the same thing you told your husband, that I don't think I could go down on a woman but I wouldn't mind a woman doing it to me. I don't think I'd ever act on those feelings though because I'm happy with my boyfriend. I've even thought about how a 3-some might work, but I'd be too jealous. So I don't think I'm doing anything with a lady any time soon =]
I hope everything turns out alright with your husband.
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I wish I could say I wouldn't act on it. But I'm not to sure about a threesome. I think I also would be jealous to.
Thank you for your wishes.
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Gwennie....
It just seem like there wasn't really nothing there. I wasn't happy.
I basically got to the point where I felt like I couldn't breathe anymore.
I hope that makes sense. Sometimes, I wonder
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Gwennie....
It sounds like your hubby is understanding about your need to sort things out right now. There are a couple of other boards that you might also find helpful, and you are likely to find members that have gone through similar experiences on them.
Bisexual Issues
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlbisex
Lesbian Relationships
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rllesbian
Has your husband mentioned how he would feel if you experimented with your feelings? Are there any women IRL that you know and find yourself attracted to, or that you know are bisexual or lesbian?
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What do you think?
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