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Was wondering?
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Tue, 08-21-2007 - 11:20pm

Hello Everyone...I wanted to stop by and ask a question to see if theres anyone else that feels this or does this? Or does this mean something.

When I'm having sex, I imagine having sex with another woman. I love to watch porn, with two women having sex. It seems i'm always thinking about that while sex.
So please, is there anyone else that does that? I would love to hear want anyone has to say.

Thank you

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Gwennie....

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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: i_gwennie
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 11:43pm
It's very common...there are alot of people/women that think of other women while having sex. I wouldn't say I do it everytime but I definitely have before.
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In reply to: i_gwennie
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 7:38am

Welcome to the board i_gwennie.

I have heard other women mention this fantasy, and I think it's probably more common than we learn here. Did you have the same fantasies prior to seeing two women together in porn?



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In reply to: i_gwennie
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 7:21pm
You ask a good question, about seeing this prior before. Well when I was going up, My best friend would lay in bed naked together, I can't recall doing anything. I know we would hop in the tub together. And we weren't little either.
I think while watching it on porn one night with my husband, I just came out and told him, I don't know if I could that. I mean going down on a woman. But I could let a woman do that to me. But when I watch porn now, I get horny with woman with bigger ones, I jusrt plain get really horny. When I told my husband that, he just said well I don't know, I think you could.
I also told him about being interested in woman. I just don't know if its just more then just a fantasy or something more.
Right now my husband and I are seperated. I left him, it wasn't that he left me because of that. Because he told me he could handle that. He could live with that. What he could really live with I really don't know.
I'm just really confused and really unsure of myself right now. I get all stressed out about it. He wants to get back together with me and something is stopping me. Is it this or that I love the freedom, or is it both. I still love him and care about him.
I know its really messed up right now.

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Registered: 02-17-2007
In reply to: i_gwennie
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 8:57pm

I think most ppl are attracted to the same sex, just at different levels. There is not really a "normal" attraction, just whatever comes naturally just is what it is!

May I ask why you and your husband are separated?

 

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In reply to: i_gwennie
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 10:34pm

I feel how you do, I have a boyfriend but I prefer girl on girl and always kind of had a thing for boobs. But I don't think I'm bisexual or anything. I've told my boyfriend the same thing you told your husband, that I don't think I could go down on a woman but I wouldn't mind a woman doing it to me. I don't think I'd ever act on those feelings though because I'm happy with my boyfriend. I've even thought about how a 3-some might work, but I'd be too jealous. So I don't think I'm doing anything with a lady any time soon =]

I hope everything turns out alright with your husband.

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Registered: 06-14-2004
In reply to: i_gwennie
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 11:02pm

I wish I could say I wouldn't act on it. But I'm not to sure about a threesome. I think I also would be jealous to.

Thank you for your wishes.

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Gwennie....

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In reply to: i_gwennie
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 11:07pm
My husband and I seperated because if me. I mean i'm the one that left him. Basically he was a driver never home. I just got to the point that it was like we were roommates.
It just seem like there wasn't really nothing there. I wasn't happy.
I basically got to the point where I felt like I couldn't breathe anymore.
I hope that makes sense. Sometimes, I wonder

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In reply to: i_gwennie
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 4:55am
I understand. Driving is very hard on a lot of relationships when you spend so much time apart. So, are you thinking of getting back together with him or are you still just trying to figure out what you want with your own life?

 

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: i_gwennie
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 6:49am

It sounds like your hubby is understanding about your need to sort things out right now. There are a couple of other boards that you might also find helpful, and you are likely to find members that have gone through similar experiences on them.

Bisexual Issues
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlbisex

Lesbian Relationships
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rllesbian

Has your husband mentioned how he would feel if you experimented with your feelings? Are there any women IRL that you know and find yourself attracted to, or that you know are bisexual or lesbian?



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Thu, 08-23-2007 - 9:26pm
God, I really need to find myself, I just don't know where to start. He wants to get back together. I told him that I thought we couldn't do it alone, that we should see a counslor. Maybe someone like that can help me realize what it is I really need to do and if this relationship is really meant to be instead of just be a relationship that we just depend on one another.
What do you think?

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