Was wondering?

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Registered: 06-14-2004
Was wondering?
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Tue, 08-21-2007 - 11:20pm

Hello Everyone...I wanted to stop by and ask a question to see if theres anyone else that feels this or does this? Or does this mean something.

When I'm having sex, I imagine having sex with another woman. I love to watch porn, with two women having sex. It seems i'm always thinking about that while sex.
So please, is there anyone else that does that? I would love to hear want anyone has to say.

Thank you

Live,Laugh & Love

Gwennie....

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Registered: 06-14-2004
In reply to: i_gwennie
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 9:30pm

Well I don't think he has ever said anything about it, about me testing my fantasies out. I don't think we ever really got to that point, but I left.

I don't know anymore that is consider themselves lesbian or I don't know anyone that thinks or feels like I do. I wish I did though. Because I would prolly try it out with them.

Live,Laugh & Love

Gwennie....

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Registered: 02-17-2007
In reply to: i_gwennie
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 10:36pm

Well, I think Misty posted some great links for you to go take a look at. The bi sexual issues board would probably be really helpful for you! I think if you felt the need to leave, you are probably doing the right thing for yourself at this time. It sounds to me like you just don't know what you want, so it would be good for you to figure that out - with or without him. I would suggest going to a counselor who could help you sort this stuff out.

If you are feeling like you are just in the relationship because you depend on him for whatever reason, the space you have right now is a good way to figure out what it is you really want. Where are you staying? I remember you saying you left, but I can't recall if you said you were with family or not.

 

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Registered: 06-14-2004
In reply to: i_gwennie
Mon, 08-27-2007 - 11:41pm
yes I have two boys. Right now, My husband has been saying really mean things to me the last few days. I decided I can't leave with him anymore. I sometimes can't believe he is acting this way. Now he talks to me that way on the phone, and the boys can hear everything. Now the boys don't want to talk to me. Thats what he says anyways.

Live,Laugh & Love

Gwennie....

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Registered: 02-17-2007
In reply to: i_gwennie
Thu, 08-30-2007 - 6:25pm
It sounds like a really difficult situation. We are all here for you when you want some advice or need to vent, so keep us all posted! Hope things get better soon.

 

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Registered: 06-24-2007
In reply to: i_gwennie
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 6:10pm

I believe this is a very common fantasy for both men and women.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: i_gwennie
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 8:54pm
Welcome to the board boosfla, and thanks for joining in the conversation.












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