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| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 11:46am |
can u guys help me out. i dont like oral sex , does that make me not mature enough to be having sex? i think oral and hand jobs r disgusting and i would never do it or let someone give me oral thats for sure.
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kate
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kate

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Leticia
Do you like to masturbate? Do you have a bf and are you in love?
I'm not trying to anger or frustrate you, just to understand more.
It just seems that you may be affraid of somethings for some reasons.
Let us know what you can...or ignore this if you want.
The fact that you find oral sex disgusting, and you think "hand jobs" are disgusting doesn't leave much else to do sexually.
Some day, if you find someone you really care about, you might change your mind.
Well, I think it will be hard for you to find someone for a long term relationship.
it doesnt interest me at all to be honest, i have done it before to a past boyfriend but thats about it, i dont really enjoy itand will prob never do it to my present man, he isnt bothered either.and the oral sex well thats just not right i dont think (no offence to those who do it)!yuk , is all i have to say about that!lol
xxxxxxxkate
hope i helped
xxxx kate
he isnt bothered about me not givin or recievin oral he doesnt say nothing so it doesnt matter, thats the way i see it,is there anything else i should say here?
xxxkate
yeah me and my man have been in love for nearly 3 yrs, we have talked about it at the begining of relationship because one night he went to go down on me and i was like " yeah right u not going down there" he didnt mind, i would never let him and i would never do it back. he hasnt mentioned it since so he not bothered , if he ends relationship just cuz there no oral or cuz i wont do other things then it wouldnt bother me cuz i can give myself the pleasure . he is a nice guy and has never had these sexual favours from past relationships.we dont really think about that anymore, we r more interested in havin fun.
xxxkate
You asked what we(individuals) think and it looks like you got a wide array of answers.
My ex wife was similar in that she wouldn't go down on me, I could do it to her, but she did not let herself relax enough to enjoy it or any other aspect of love making.
It was Ok at first, I figured we'd "grow into it".
However, after 10 yrs. of not growing at all, and my interest in it and frustration from lack of her interest building...we divorced. Not her or my fault. Just a difference.
There were other reasons...but honestly sex was the main one.
Good luck to you, and I hope you've found your soul mate.
Edited 8/20/2004 6:53 am ET ET by luvlickin
thanks
xxxxx kate
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