wat do u think

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Registered: 02-19-2004
wat do u think
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Thu, 08-19-2004 - 11:46am
can u guys help me out. i dont like oral sex , does that make me not mature enough to be having sex? i think oral and hand jobs r disgusting and i would never do it or let someone give me oral thats for sure.

xxx

kate

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 4:59pm
I also believe he'll eventually be looking for it elsewhere. If he's never had it (these two have been together since they were children) he'll get curious about it someday, and if she hasn't changed her attitude by then, it's available anywhere and everywhere.

Did you ever watch "Cops"? Whenever they do a reverse sting for prostitution, the "johns" they catch are mostly older men, who admit they're married. And guess what they usually proposition the decoys for.......you got it....oral sex.

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Sun, 08-22-2004 - 5:39pm
hi i have been with my guy for nearly 3 yrs, we are very close (obviously) and know about eachothers past relationships,mine werent sexual and his were , but only 2 , only for one night. he said that 9 out of 10 , the things we have done together sexually r like the first time for us both, i believe and trust wat he tells me. its not that im afraid of wat other girls he might have been down on (not that he has)im not afraid i might catch something cuz i wouldnt just do it without knowing the person.its just the fact that it doesnt interest me and its disgusting. thats the way i see it anyway.i chose not to do it.yeah masturbation is great! well as for him masturbating , i ask him often if he has done it without me and he tells me no, only once he said he done it without me! i dont believe him but to be honest i dont really care, he can do it if he likes, i suppose i would rather not know.

xxxxxxxxxxxkate
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 5:43pm
yeah thanks for ur advice, i sure do know about the flavored condom thing , mint ones r the best!to be honest his penis is too big for my gob!!!

xxxxxxxx kate

p.s it chokes me
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Registered: 04-19-2003
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 5:45pm

Oh Schrecken, Schrecken.....the only man who would tolerate a handjob from a rubber glove wearer would be one who gets his kicks from pretending he's being examined

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 5:52pm
he does care,i mean he respects my feelings.he has had two past sexual girlfriends but only for 1 night which was just full sex.he does not mind at all, we find other fun things to do accept oral.a kiss is enough to get a man going these days anyway!lol

xxxkate
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 5:54pm
dunno maybe i not mature enough just yet

xxx kate
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 6:00pm
hi thanks for that, its very helpful.yes we r in a very loving and trusting relationship. i think it might be that i am so used to pleasing myself that i just cant get confortable wen my man tries. and yeah i think its yuk .

xxxxkate
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 6:23pm

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 11:01pm
Hey, I was more or less joking about the gloves for a hand job thing (I used to be a taxidermist so touching gross stuff is nothing for me and I'm sure I've handled a lot worse than a penis!) - but serious as a heartbeat about the flavored condoms. You can always wash your hands - but the mouth is a bit harder (unless the OP wants to stock up on Lysterine or Scope and do lots of post-sex gargling) IMO.

Schrecken
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Registered: 01-03-2004
Mon, 08-23-2004 - 12:13am
A kiss, sure I like kisses also but it is not enough, and I am sure it wouldn't be for most.

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