wat do u think

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Registered: 02-19-2004
wat do u think
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Thu, 08-19-2004 - 11:46am
can u guys help me out. i dont like oral sex , does that make me not mature enough to be having sex? i think oral and hand jobs r disgusting and i would never do it or let someone give me oral thats for sure.

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kate

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Mon, 08-23-2004 - 6:36am
well obviously im not good enough or mature enough so wats the piont ey
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Mon, 08-23-2004 - 6:43am
na i dont think any of it is goin too far if i dont want to do it i wont do it. i just wanted to know wat people would say
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Mon, 08-23-2004 - 8:54am
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Mon, 08-23-2004 - 1:14pm
why was message 44 deleted?????

xxxkate
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Mon, 08-23-2004 - 1:30pm
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 1:45am
I think what most people would say is that if you're a mature adult, and you understand what "love" really is, then there is nothing you would find gross or disgusting about a man you supposedly love.
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Registered: 08-24-2004
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 1:57am
Mmmm, not totally sure about that. As I said, my best friend just can't do oral. Some people have slight hangups and you have to work with 'em. Not the end of the world! I see these postings (not in this thread) about "I love him, but he can't/won't ___ me; should I leave him?" and I just think that is totally totally nuts. Sex is fun, but it's not rare. Love is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay funner, and boy is it RARE!!!
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 7:40am
What I find highly amusing in all this is the fact that the human mouth carries many *many* more germs and bacteria than a penis does! The mouth isn't the holy clean place that people seem to think it is!
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Registered: 04-19-2003
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 7:45am
Not only that, but those who worry about the penis being for urinating should remember that urine is sterile.
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Registered: 04-19-2003
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 7:52am

Just wanted to add that you could always place a loose layer of cling-wrap between your mouths to keep those nasty germs at bay ;-)

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