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| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 11:46am |
can u guys help me out. i dont like oral sex , does that make me not mature enough to be having sex? i think oral and hand jobs r disgusting and i would never do it or let someone give me oral thats for sure.
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kate
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kate

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I suppose you can do that Yasmin, but you have to be careful when sucking that you don't suck the cling wrap down your throat and choke to death.
Many of us couples each other's bodies and body parts, even to the point of oral sex. With proper hygience, its safe and not unhealthy at all and provides extremely top-notch pleasure to each. For some it serves as an even MORE intimate form of love-making than without it.
Other couples or individuals don't always share that same view.
I think thats really all that CAN be said about it.
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Edited 8/24/2004 5:58 pm ET ET by i_christy_la1
what it seems to be coming down to is that you're just not ready to have sex yet. You're allowed to like or dislike whatever you want when it comes to foreplay (altho be prepared, the more experience you get you mind just might change about oral and stuff! i used to be VERY "anti" certain things when i was young...my opinion has changed over time!!).
it seems to me the fact that you're questioning whether you're ready or not indicates you are in fact MATURE (rather than just doing it cuz you think you're supposed to)...it's simply that you're not ready. which is totally fine!
the only bit of advice i offer is to try and be open minded. and be understanding that a sexual relationship is about give and take between PARTNERS and you will both have to work at finding way to pleasing each other...his needs and wants are as important as yours. Sounds like he's a great guy, and you are young and have plenty of years to grow and learn about each other- you just gotta be willing to roll with it...having super strict rigid rules on a lot of things without even considering change over time may spell trouble down the road.
but for now, just go with your gut. you know what's best for you...
Or, for those days you're feeling a little kinky, aluminium foil adds an interesting sensation and looks way cooler...
ROTFL! :-)
xxx kate
I swear I'll really be careful with whom I share a drink with these days - you never know where their mouth was last night :-P
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