watching masturbation

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watching masturbation
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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 2:29am
Have you ever asked your lover to masturbate in front of you? Did you like it? Did you want him to cum on you?

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Fri, 03-10-2006 - 3:04am
My partner originally would have never requested such a thing. In fact she admits that she was pretty freaked out when I first did it in front of her. Now, she says that she is fascinated by it and loves it and that it turns her on. She doesn't really/dislike like me cumming on her but she does love to watch me cum. I know that she gets very turned on when I kneel between her legs as she plays with herself and as she watches me cum on her vulva - she'll usually continue to masturbate and will have an orgasm moments after I ejeculate onto her in that situation. Other than that, she seems happy to just watch me orgasm.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 03-10-2006 - 7:21am

Yes, many years ago I asked Dh to and that was the start of mutual masturbation for us.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 03-10-2006 - 4:25pm
I actually did ask him to do it for me, years ago when we were first married. I wanted to take a picture of him. He obliged and I found it very sexy but he wasn't really comfortable with it. And no, I didn't want him to ejaculate on me.
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Registered: 11-26-2004
Sat, 03-11-2006 - 4:13pm

We didn't ask, we just did it--and yes, we love it. Mutual masturbation as well.

Yes, I want him to ejaculate wherever he likes.

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 01-09-2006
Sun, 03-12-2006 - 8:09pm
My partner and I masturbate together all the time....either one of us at a time, or both of us at the same time. I love it. Sometimes I ask him to cum on me, other times I have him cum in my mouth or I'll "clean him off" after he comes.
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Registered: 08-02-2004
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 1:57am
You sound like a great lover to have. Someone willing for most anything, anytime.
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Registered: 08-02-2004
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 1:59am
You also sound like a good lover open to new adventure. I say this because some people think the same position for 22 years is just fine.
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Registered: 03-11-2005
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 4:05am

My DW and I always engage in light mutual masterbation as part of foreplay. Usually we watch a group sex DVD at the same time. Then we cum from intercourse or oral sex, but some time I will cum on her boobs from masterbation. Hot DW!!!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 6:19am

I don't like routine, variety is the spice of life whether it's with sex or anything.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 9:47am
Well, I guess it's all relative, isn't it? While my DH and I would be bored with one position, some people do place sex at a lower priority level than others and that's okay, too. They may feel that it's just a physical function to maintained, like brushing one's teeth, taking a shower, etc. From what I've read and seen, many cultures see sex this way.


Edited 3/13/2006 10:52 am ET by katmandoo2001

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